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Our tech team has launched updates to The Nest today. As a result of these updates, members of the Nest Community will need to change their password in order to continue participating in the community. In addition, The Nest community member's avatars will be replaced with generic default avatars. If you wish to revert to your original avatar, you will need to re-upload it via The Nest.
If you have questions about this, please email help@theknot.com.
Thank you.
Note: This only affects The Nest's community members and will not affect members on The Bump or The Knot.
Monday POLL!
Do you prefer you on top or him on top?
What's for dinner?
When you bicker, does it ultimately lead to make up sex?
Who controls the finances (bill paying, transferring $ to savings, account balancing) between you and H?
Do you think having a stash of cash that your H/SO doesn't know about is a smart thing, or is it shady?
Re: Monday POLL!
Do you prefer you on top or him on top? Him. Of course, he prefers me on top...eh.
What's for dinner? I made meatloaf last night, but apparently, I don't make it as good as grandma's - so JJ won't eat it. So I'm eating meatloaf and making him baked chicken.
When you bicker, does it ultimately lead to make up sex? Yup. About 95 percent of the time. And it's awesome.
Who controls the finances (bill paying, transferring $ to savings, account balancing) between you and H? Definitely me. I used to do it before he left for basic/tech school anyway, but now, I do it full time.
Do you think having a stash of cash that your H/SO doesn't know about is a smart thing, or is it shady? A little of both. It's smart for emergencies but a little shady because my H wouldn't know that it existed. I'd probably tell him I had a stash but wouldn't tell him where or how much was in it.Do you prefer you on top or him on top? him
What's for dinner? maybe shrimp and pasta or eggplant something if tghe eggplant defrosts in time for dinner
When you bicker, does it ultimately lead to make up sex? when we bicker, sometimes. If we fight, never
Who controls the finances (bill paying, transferring $ to savings, account balancing) between you and H? I do. I'm slightly afraid of what would happen financially if I died. He knows what bank we bank at but that is about it.
Do you think having a stash of cash that your H/SO doesn't know about is a smart thing, or is it shady? I wouldn't feel right doing that, but I understand why some people do do it. My mom told me I should always have some money that he can't get to and vice versa, but we don't. Well, technically, the kids' money only had my name on it, but he knows its there (though I am sure he doesn't know how much)
Do you prefer you on top or him on top? Him
What's for dinner? Probably grilled chicken breast and a lipton pasta of some sort.
When you bicker, does it ultimately lead to make up sex? Not usually
Who controls the finances (bill paying, transferring $ to savings, account balancing) between you and H? We both do, I have bills I pay and he has bills he pays, I usually know an estimate of what is in our account but rarely check it; H one the other hand checks about everyother day so he is more on it than I am.
Do you think having a stash of cash that your H/SO doesn't know about is a smart thing, or is it shady? A little bit of both; yes it is good to have but keeping it form your SO is probably not the smartest thing to do.
Do you prefer you on top or him on top? Most of the times but sometimes I like to take control.
What's for dinner? leftover lasagna. H is working late tonight.
When you bicker, does it ultimately lead to make up sex? Not all the time.
Who controls the finances (bill paying, transferring $ to savings, account balancing) between you and H? H is the one who pays the bills. I do sometimes but he is better at it than I am. I'll admit it. I do know exactly what is being paid is how much is in our account.
Do you think having a stash of cash that your H/SO doesn't know about is a smart thing, or is it shady? I don't think I could ever do it. H and I like to know what is going on with our money. Since we both work and have a joint bank account we think of it as our money. So I think me hiding some of it from him would be very shady. Plus he would know right away.
What's for dinner? Some sort of lean meat and a salad. My neighbor Crystal is a psycho and has decided that we're both going to lose a few lbs. I think it's interestingly funny.
When you bicker, does it ultimately lead to make up sex? Yes.
Who controls the finances (bill paying, transferring $ to savings, account balancing) between you and H? I pay the bills, but we both know about and have access to all accounts.
Do you think having a stash of cash that your H/SO doesn't know about is a smart thing, or is it shady? I'll never be without a few dollars, that's for sure. Like I've said before...no one ever needs to know everything about you.
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Do you prefer you on top or him on top? Him
What's for dinner? Something quick, I have class tonight and DH has softball
When you bicker, does it ultimately lead to make up sex? Nope. I was thinking about this the other day. We never have make up sex.
Who controls the finances (bill paying, transferring $ to savings, account balancing) between you and H? Me, mostly. He pays the truck payment and he always checks the bank account online so he always has an idea about how much we have. But I do all the rest.
Do you think having a stash of cash that your H/SO doesn't know about is a smart thing, or is it shady? Shady. Unless it's money to buy him a surprise or something. But I think it depends on your relationship. It might not be shady to some couples.
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Do you prefer you on top or him on top? We rarely ever do it missionary (I like the lazy side lay) if I want to deed to be over I'll get on top.
What's for dinner? Brown sugar chicken and squash casserole
When you bicker, does it ultimately lead to make up sex? not usually.
Who controls the finances (bill paying, transferring $ to savings, account balancing) between you and H? I would say we both equally contribute to watching the account and paying the bills. Anytime anything is transfered or what not we tell the other person.
Do you think having a stash of cash that your H/SO doesn't know about is a smart thing, or is it shady? I did find a $10 in the dryer the other day and pocketed it :0)
My dad has a stash of cash that my mom knows about but she doesn't touch it. I'm not a fan of keeping money around the house.
Do you prefer you on top or him on top? him
What's for dinner? some sort of pasta with sauteed spinach and sundried tomatoes.
When you bicker, does it ultimately lead to make up sex? yes for the most part.
Who controls the finances (bill paying, transferring $ to savings, account balancing) between you and H? H does. He's pretty good at it, so i'll let him continue.
Do you think having a stash of cash that your H/SO doesn't know about is a smart thing, or is it shady? i personally wouldn't do it because i would feel bad, but i could see why in some situations it would be ok.
Do you prefer you on top or him on top? Him
What's for dinner? Anniversary Takeout.
When you bicker, does it ultimately lead to make up sex? Not often.
Who controls the finances (bill paying, transferring $ to savings, account balancing) between you and H? Umm, that would be ALL me.
Do you think having a stash of cash that your H/SO doesn't know about is a smart thing, or is it shady? Ehh, a bit shady unless you're in a potentially bad position where there's a chance the marriage won't last. Then it's probably smart.my bookshelf!
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Do you prefer you on top or him on top? him
What's for dinner? who knows
When you bicker, does it ultimately lead to make up sex? not usually
Who controls the finances (bill paying, transferring $ to savings, account balancing) between you and H? I guess I do.... but he knows where all the money is going. I'm the one who actually writes the checks and transfers the money though.
Do you think having a stash of cash that your H/SO doesn't know about is a smart thing, or is it shady? No way. What's mine is his, and his is mine. I would feel so betrayed if he hid money from me.Do you prefer you on top or him on top?
Him, unless I want to get anything accomplished, then I'll take control.
What's for dinner?
Chicken and broccoli casserole and a salad
When you bicker, does it ultimately lead to make up sex?
Rarely
Who controls the finances (bill paying, transferring $ to savings, account balancing) between you and H?
Most bills come out automatically. We use Mint.com and both get almost daily emails about activity in our accounts or where we stand on our budgets; we will then discuss.
Do you think having a stash of cash that your H/SO doesn't know about is a smart thing, or is it shady?
In my relationship, it woud be shady. We both have access to cash.