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Hair Related

So, I pretty much PPH my stylist, he's super awesome. I love the color and cuts he does on my hair. I've been going to him for a few years now.

However...........I've been thinking about dyeing my hair at home, and just going to him for cuts. This is a purely financial decision. It costs $115 including a 20% tip, every time I get my hair done, which is about every 8 weeks. Realistically, I need to do it every 6 weeks thanks to my roots, but I don't want to spend the money that often. Cuts alone are $35, plus a 20% tip, so $42 total.

It's not that I can't afford it, it's just that I know that I should be saving that money instead, since I'm not saving as much as I really should be right now. However, I don't want to hurt his feelings, and I know he needs the revenue as well, since the economy is down and so his income is reduced as well.

What would you do?

Re: Hair Related

  • pimp him out? Give out his business cards, rec him to F&F, post up about how much you lurve him on kudzu.com, yelp.com  and angieslist.com type websites.

    Its the best I've got.

    I don't dye my hair @ the salon all that often but I ain't skeered of some roots. Wink Its just too expensive to do it all that often and I can't really get the color right @ home either. I try to do a 1-step every 3-4mo and highlights every 6 mo

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  • I would either keep going to him or go natural. I am terrified of coloring my hair at home. I got sick of paying for my hair to be colored a couple of years ago, so went back natural. It was an adjustment, but I love the no maintenance factor.
  • See, I just do a plain chocolate brown color, nothing fancy. My roots are blond (yes, I'm a natural blond who dyes her hair dark, sue me), so they stand out quite a bit, and if I dyed my hair at home I could do it more often so I would feel less self conscious about the root situation.

    I also love the sense of pampering of getting my hair done. I show up on saturday with my cup of coffee, and sit down and we talk our heads off for 3 hours. It's great. But, I really should be saving the money, but I don't wanna! Neither will I cut off cable or internet to help subsidize my hair, I really need those things too.

    So basically I'm a spoiled brat. Stick out tongue

  • imageAmy_729:
    I would either keep going to him or go natural. I am terrified of coloring my hair at home. I got sick of paying for my hair to be colored a couple of years ago, so went back natural. It was an adjustment, but I love the no maintenance factor.

    I can't really do this due to the contrast in colors. I would have dark ends and blond roots, and it would just look dreadful.

  • MrsBAMF had some good ideas. You are still going to him and love him. You can always tell him it's purely a financial decision or maybe get him to color your hair once/year or so.
  • Oh no no. I didn't just let mine grow out. That would have looked terrible!! I went in when I had roots that were long enough for her to try to match an all over color to them. She did something to remove the highlights, then did an all over color to match my roots. Of course, it isn't perfect and I can still see a subtle difference in color, but its so subtle that I don't think anyone else would even notice. I am probably 1-2 haircuts away from all of the color being out.
  • imageAmy_729:
    Oh no no. I didn't just let mine grow out. That would have looked terrible!! I went in when I had roots that were long enough for her to try to match an all over color to them. She did something to remove the highlights, then did an all over color to match my roots. Of course, it isn't perfect and I can still see a subtle difference in color, but its so subtle that I don't think anyone else would even notice. I am probably 1-2 haircuts away from all of the color being out.

    Oh, I see! Well, that means I would have to go blonde, which I really don't want. Brunette hair is just so much more flattering to me.

  • Um, I color my hair at home and get it cut in Ringgold (where my parents live) for $35 (including tip).  I won't lie...I've had some color mishaps, but I'm a brunette and color to cover the gray hairs.  I don't do anything dramatic, and the one time I did (maroon highlights) it wasn't that terrible.  I'd say keep going to him for haircuts, pimps him out, color on your own.  You can always go back for a maintenance color once a year.
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  • imageMeinschatz11:
    Um, I color my hair at home and get it cut in Ringgold (where my parents live) for $35 (including tip).  I won't lie...I've had some color mishaps, but I'm a brunette and color to cover the gray hairs.  I don't do anything dramatic, and the one time I did (maroon highlights) it wasn't that terrible.  I'd say keep going to him for haircuts, pimps him out, color on your own.  You can always go back for a maintenance color once a year.

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  • I'm not sure that I really have advice as I am in a similar situation.

    I'm naturally a dark brunette. But I was highlighting for a long time (first blond then I switched to red.) The money and time strains got to be too much so I decided to go back to my natural color. I went in and had my hair colored to match my natural shade etc. It stayed for awhile but now my highlights are starting to show through and it appears that I have roots again. It's not terribly noticeable but it's annoying. I'm debating the box color thing too but I'm afraid of messing it up and I also know my stylist really needs the money...

     I guess my point is...going natural might not be the answer for you either esp. if it's not the color you want. You might want to post this on the F&B board as there are a few hair stylists that post there. I wish I could be of more help!

  • I've been coloring my own hair for years.  I use the nat. instincts SEMI PERM, which is more like a color gloss for your hair.  It's not damaging and the color is really rich.  And they go on sale a whole lot.  It's so simple, it's dummy proof.  I say go to him for cuts, color your own hair, and splurge once a year for him to color for you :)
  • I've been doing my own color for years, it's not that big of a deal, especially if you are doing a single color. If you're worried about the color being off, you can go to him every 3rd time or so, that way he still gets some busines, but you are still saving some money.  If you do color at home, just make sure you up your conditioning, at home hair color is a little rougher on your hair than salon color.
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  • What's wrong with natural blondes? Stick out tongue j/k

  • imagejoelizabeth23:
    I've been coloring my own hair for years.  I use the nat. instincts SEMI PERM, which is more like a color gloss for your hair.  It's not damaging and the color is really rich.  And they go on sale a whole lot.  It's so simple, it's dummy proof.  I say go to him for cuts, color your own hair, and splurge once a year for him to color for you :)

    Oh yeah, definitely using a semi perm, I learned not to do permanent color. :)

  • i still can't believe you are a blonde....
  • imageReadytobeMrs.B:
    i still can't believe you are a blonde....

    In two weeks I will let you come check out my roots. Stick out tongue

  • I am actually kinda considering the same thing. Either coloring at home or having a friend who is currently going through the Paul Mitchell school color my hair (@ PM or her doing it at my house) however, still pay for my cuts at my regular stylist. Like you, I can afford it, but I shouldn't be spending that.

    Maybe that's something to consider for you, going to the school it's much cheaper. My friend actually may come over next weekend and color my hair. She is only charging me whatever it costs for the color plus a tip. If all is well, I can put you in touch with her.
  • imageMrsLadyNole:
    I am actually kinda considering the same thing. Either coloring at home or having a friend who is currently going through the Paul Mitchell school color my hair (@ PM or her doing it at my house) however, still pay for my cuts at my regular stylist. Like you, I can afford it, but I shouldn't be spending that.

    Maybe that's something to consider for you, going to the school it's much cheaper. My friend actually may come over next weekend and color my hair. She is only charging me whatever it costs for the color plus a tip. If all is well, I can put you in touch with her.

    No thanks, but I appreciate the thought. The whole point is not to pay someone to do it, so even a "tip" amps up the cost too much for me. If someone is going to drive over to my house to do it, I would feel like I would need to give them at least a $25-$30 tip, and I can do it myself for nothing.

  • I've started only getting color about every third time I visit the salon. I used to keep my hair pretty dark but I'm starting to let it get closer to my natural shade and the color is just to give it a little richness. So usually by the time I've got roots, the color has faded enough so it doesn't look crazy.
  • imagePuppiesAndRainbows:

    imageReadytobeMrs.B:
    i still can't believe you are a blonde....

    In two weeks I will let you come check out my roots. Stick out tongue

    noelle, take pictures...i'm doubtful myself ;)

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