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Well looks like we aren't TTC. :(
He changes his damn mind ALL the time and I just can't take it anymore. It is an emotional roller coaster. I get so unbelievably excited only to be crushed. I have wanted to be pregnant and be a mommy more than anything since I was like 4. I got pregnant and miscarried last year and that made the urge 10000 times worse. It left a huge void and left me in a bad depression. He wants a baby but he is so god damn worried about money. We have money saved up!! and we have no debt. Almost everyone I know is pregnant. Life sucks 
Vent over.
Vent over.
Re: Well looks like we aren't TTC. :(
Nobody is ever really ready for a baby. I do think it is smart to be financially secure before you bring a child into the world since there will always be doctors bills and necessities. Sounds like you have that part covered though. I'm sure you know this but he is obviously scared sh!tless about the idea of having a baby. Just sit down with him and tell him that he seriously can't play with you like this, especially if its something you want so bad and then tell him its also normal for him to be scared. Its a big thing! If he has any other concerns he should let you know too because marriage is a team effort and you definitely don't want to push things on him when he's not ready and vice a versa.... Good luck!
I hope this made some kind of sense...I'm so tired but I can't sleep to save my life...
I agree with stephers, sit down and talk it out like adults. Let him know how much you want a baby and tell him he can't keep playing around with your emotions. Things will work out!
I also have a question, why does your ticker say you've been married for over a year?
he'll come around.... you know how he is. Up and down and up and down and up.....
I know DH is scared and will be scared up until the day we actually HAVE a baby. And even then, he'll probably STILL be scared sh!tless!
I agree with PP that you both should sit down and rationally talk about it. Set aside the bias you both have and talk about it from a neutral posistion.
You're never going to be READY for a baby 100%. But GL! I know that he will come around eventually. Here's to hoping DH doesn't change his mind come May next year... I'll have to set him straight REAL quick!