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Threesome
DH wants one for his birthday. The perfect third person is a friend of mine but she said no because she thinks that it will hurt our relationship as friends. So how do I go about getting a third,
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Re: Threesome
Well honestly I dont think thats the best idea unless you are in a care free relationship. If you are in a serious relationship or marriage especially regardless if its a friend or a stranger (which might be better if u are gung ho on doing this deed regardless)... this never ends well for you... you might think its all great when you start but wait until you see your man stare at the other woman in a way he doesn't look at you, or if she takes her clothes off and shes sexier or skinnier then you... then what if your mans more into the 3rd person because shes new and exciting... are u just going to sit back and watch or will you start getting jealous... sometimes this leads to other things, like he may not want it to stop after this one time, he may want a threesome more often.. and sometims if you refuse him, he will do what he wants which might even be cheat on you.... this is all just "Could Happen"... but the other fact is say you do it only the one time and its fine.. the next time you have sex with your man... and the thought crosses your mind "Is he thinking of me while we do it, or is he picturing her again..." it starts to strain on anyones relationship.... video games are so much safer for birthday presents.. some even have naked girls in them now... go for that instead..
WTF would ask for a threesome as a birthday present?
Are you not enough, or what?
http://community.thenest.com/cs/ks/forums/thread/42529060.aspx
Four posts down...read all the way through, and please for the sake of your marriage...DON'T DO IT
I don't think a threesome just for the sake of making (or keeping) your husband happy is a very good idea.
If things don't work out, it would probably ruin your relationship.
If you tell him no I'd be very interested to hear what his response is.
If your DH is so gung ho on the threesome idea...how about you suggest the 3rd be a guy? Maybe that will wake your DH up to how you feel about someone joining your sexlife.
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