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Interesting article-Childless & Loving it

Since the dawn of birth control, more women have opted against having kids. Nearly one-in-five American women now ends her childbearing years without giving birth, up from one-in-10 in the 1970s, according to a recent Pew study. The percentage has risen for all racial and ethnic groups.

The top reason women give for not wanting kids is simply loving their life as it is. Other reasons: valuing freedom and independence, not wanting to take on the responsibility, and 74 percent said they "had no desire to have a child, no maternal/paternal instinct."

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  • DH and I have discussed this like crazy. We are okay with the idea of being childless forever, because we want to do some more traveling and we really really enjoy our lives as they are.
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  • I'm 25 and still feel too young but on the other hand I'm an only child in my Mother's words, "Her only hope".

    I feel like I am compassionate but does that translate to a maternal instinct? I guess I am ambivalent so that is my answer right there.

  • I have maternal/paternal instinct, but my choice was NO!
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    I'm 25 and still feel too young but on the other hand I'm an only child in my Mother's words, "Her only hope".

    I feel like I am compassionate but does that translate to a maternal instinct? I guess I am ambivalent so that is my answer right there.

    It makes me twitch every time my MIL says this. Wow, I'm sorry you had 5 children and only one turned out decent enough to reproduce. Not my, or my uterus' problem.

    DH and I have decided that for whatever reason we can't have children, we just won't. We're okay either way. 

  • I'm in that 74% with no maternal instinct. Funny thing is, for my cats I have it but show me a human baby and it flies out the window. The rest of the article also partains to dh and I.
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  • That is totally us.  Except my #1 reason is that I just don't like kids.  At all.  But maybe that falls into maternal instinct.
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    It's good to see that I am not alone.

    Hey, I know you! Big Smile

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  • imageDuffinger:
    That is totally us.  Except my #1 reason is that I just don't like kids.  At all.  But maybe that falls into maternal instinct.

    This is also totally us.  Neither one of us wants or likes kids.  We have a lot of nephews and a niece; that is more than enough for us.

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    imageMusicheals71:
    It's good to see that I am not alone.

    Hey, I know you! Big Smile

     

    Hey there, njgal26! Smile

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