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Vent Alert!
So, for the first year or so of our marriage (just celebrated 1 year in July), H was so paranoid about me getting pregnant, that depsite me being on BCP, we used a condom as well. So, finally since around our anniversary, we have not been using a condom, just BCP, and we both seem to enjoy sex better. Sometimes it's hard for him to admit it, but I can tell he does. So anyway, now to my vent. We last had sex on Wednesday, and on Thursday, I got placed on antibiotics for a sinus infection. It wasn't a big deal, because he was going out of town for the weekend anyway. Except he's coming home tonight and has already made it clear that he wants to have sex. Well, we're going to have to use a condom, since I'm on antibiotics and I really want sex as well, but I've been so spoiled by not using a condom, that I'm not looking forward to it. This sucks!
Re: Vent Alert!
QFT. Just have him pull out.
i still don't understand why people actually believe that this is an actual, plausible, RELIABLE method. fluid comes out long before ejaculation.
QFT. Just have him pull out.
Wow...now there is a great suggestion, if you want to get pregnant.
H pulls out. Always. We have maybe used a condom TWICE since we have been together (~3 years) and I have been on BC the whole time. Condoms just feel yucky :X
One night, after a particularly unpleasent condom experience, I described it as the feeling of sandpaper on my privates. lol