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Never had a vaignal orgasm/ Oral Orgasm Yes I think??
I'm sure this has been posted b 4 but here it is again. I have never had a vaginal orgasm and would very much like to know what it feels like. The only way I can have an orgasm is from oral sex which I have no problem. Saying that when I have the orgasm (at least I think I'm having one). I feel the sensation and all but I never feel any liquid coming out and often ask my husband did I do it!!!! He always says yes baby you did it. Does there have to be liquid coming out or can I just have the sensation.
What can I do to have a vaginal orgasm?
Re: Never had a vaignal orgasm/ Oral Orgasm Yes I think??
Um, I've never had liquid coming out of me when I orgasm...I don't know of anyone that does. I could be mistaken but I think that's really something that's just found in porn. If I understand you, you're talking about "squirting". Ew.
You say you "think" you're having an orgasm? If you aren't sure, then you didn't have one. You KNOW when you're having one. At least that's my experience and that of everyone I know of.
As far as a vaginal orgasm, that's something that's different for each person. Try different positions, find what feels best for you and experiment. Try you being on top, that's always one of the best ways for you to experiment because you control things.
Not all women squirt but you will get wet...is that what you're talking about?
Try different positions or try playing with yourself while you're having sex.
Um...yeah...I think "squirting" is a porn thing or something that is more uncommon. If you're very sensitive afterwards, most likely you had an orgasm. Best advice? Forget about trying for the orgasm. Let it happen. Stop thinking about it. That was my biggest hangup. I kept wanting one during sex. When I finally stopped putting the pressure on myself to have one and just enjoyed everything, I did. Girl on top is definitely the easiest because his peen will be deeper and there's clitoral stimulation as well.
I also agree with PP. Touch yourself during sex. Not only will it help you out, but your H will think it's hot. DH loves when I do that. It works best in doggie-style or reverse cowgirl.
Just remember - no orgasm is the same. Some are bigger than others. And sometimes, you just can't get off.
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First off: Only about 20% of women will EVER have a vaginal orgasm. So I'd stop worrying about that bit entirely. If it happens for you, great, it'll be a happy surprise.
Secondly: Do you orgasm when you masturbate? If you don't masturbate, you need to start. It'll be a lot easier to have a fulfilling sex life with someone else once you have it with yourself.
Third: "Squirting" is even more rare than vaginal orgasms. You and your husband need to stop watching porn and start reading actual sex manuals, written by qualified sex educators. You need some good, solid, scientific information, which you absolutely cannot get from porn. Porn is awesome for turning you on, and for exploring kinks, but it's not meant to be sex education.
Only 20%, really?! Suddenly I feel very fortunate...
And OP, don't worry so much during sex about whether you will have an orgasm. The more pressure you put on yourself, the harder it will be. Just stay in the moment, maybe try getting your S.O. to stimulate your clitoris. Sometimes that can really get you going.
I do often from G spot O's and masturbation now that I have learned how I work. It has been some time since my last oral O so who knows
Why is that "ew"? It's not found only in porn. Lots of regular old everyday women can achieve this. It's called female ejaculation and you're an idiot.
Don't worry, I'm working on it.
Get it on!
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Don't worry, I'm working on it.
Get it on!
Not every woman is a squirter. Not to worry.
Some women never have vaginal orgasms. Again, not to worry -- enjoy the cliteral orgasms you do have.
If you don't understand the female body to a point where you think only a certain group of individuals are capable of doing something, that doesn't come across as incredibly enlightened.
What exactly is so "disgusting" about something the body does naturally?
Don't worry, I'm working on it.
Get it on!
Ive never had one period.
My body doesnt seem to know what that word is.. "Orgasam"
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