June 2010 Weddings
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S&R lurking...

...and i'm now wondering...

this woman claims she's only had an orgasm with oral, but never a "vaginal" orgasm. Umm...if you orgasm, doesn't it come from the same place regardless of what's happening? I mean, if you masturbate, do you call that a hand-orgasm?  I get it if you're doing anal, that's a completely different orgasm, but isn't an orgasm from oral and regular-old sex the same? I mean, you don't have an orgasm in your knee...

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Finally...we are Mr. & Mrs.!!! WooHoo!!!

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Re: S&R lurking...

  • The orgasm comes from the same place of course but what she means is that she has reached orgasm through oral stimulation and not through vaginal stimulation.  She may be expecting the orgasms to feel different for some they do.  Not to be too personal but mine feel different.  Vaginal ones are way more intense and that is what she is probably wanting to have.
  • She was asking if they felt the same though, so that's why I think she doesn't know what the hell she's talking about.
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    Finally...we are Mr. & Mrs.!!! WooHoo!!!

    Planning Bio
    Married Bio (Work In Progress)
  • For some people they feel different so she is probably just wondering if she is missing out on something.
  • There are at least a few different ways to orgasm, and they all tend to feel REALLY different (at least for me). An "oral" orgasm is a clitoral orgasm. You don't need any stimulation to your vagina to orgasm clitorally. A g-spot/vaginal orgasm feels different for me, and actually not as good (for me), but technically, I don't need any touch to the clit to have that happen. Then there's a cervical orgasm, kinda deep within the vagina, and freakin KILLER! :-D So yeah.. there are others, people say sometimes, but these are the main ones (in my opinion). :-D And FWIW, I never orgasmed vaginally til my husband. Only ever clitorally before that. Just sayin'.
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