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I know this is depressing but I just need to vent a little. Our male sugar glider Leo died today :(   That was by far the hardest thing I've had to do, I'm really glad that I work for a veterinary clinic. I gave the vet clinic a call and we rushed Leo to see him, he was acting really lethargic and..just different. On the car ride there Leo started having seizures, and still kept having them when we got to the clinic.  

Leo was really dehydrated and so we gave him some fluids and vitamins to help, and he seemed to get a little bit better for a while, and then the seizures started getting worse. Leo gave it a good fight for about 45 minutes before he passed away.  

I've never had an animal die in my hands before..I don't want to ever have that happen again :(  DH and I were just silent the whole way home, I feel like its my fault as a pet owner that I should have seen something sooner, I know he had water yesterday and he was out this morning. The doctor said from his seizures and looking at his eyes that it was something neurological that caused him to become dehydrated as a side effect..but I still can't help but feel like it was my fault for not noticing any other signs that he was sick...but still.

I think that Kiah knows something isn't right too. I can't know for sure, but she just seems like she knows something is wrong. We got her out when we got home and gave her some loves and when I put her back in her cage she just sat up in her hammock looking at Leo's cage. It breaks my heart :(   I just hope that she will be alright until Danny and I are ready to have another sugie. Sugar gliders are companion animals and do better in pairs..but we just couldn't replace Leo that quickly :(  

 Sorry about this being so depressing...I just had to vent. Thanks for listening ladies 

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  • Laura, I am so sorry to hear that :( I know how much your little babies mean to you! I know it's hard to accept, but keep telling yourself you couldn't have done anything different. You know the signs to look out for, and as soon as you saw them, you took him in. You did everything you could. Again, I'm so sorry, and I will be thinking of you! *hugs*
  • aww Laura I'm so sorry to hear about Leo. I agree with Ainslee tho, you did everything you could from the moment you noticed anything was wrong. It seems like Leo was very loved and had a wonderful life with you guys.
  • We did love him very much, its just so hard because he was so young :(  They just turned a year old in June..they are supposed to live 12 years in captivity.  *Sigh*  I feel like we've lost a child :(
  • :( im so sorry! please dont blame yourself - something these things just happen and we don't know why. **hugs**

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  • So sorry for your loss!  I agree, don't blame yourself.  It sounds as though you did everything you could and unfortunately these things can happen.  You will get another one when you and DH feel ready.  You would not be replacing Leo, just opening your home and hearts to another!
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  • I am so sorry to hear about Leo!!!  I know how hard it is to lose a pet- they aren't just pets, they are your good friends!  I am sure that Leo loved his life with you guys and knew nothing but happiness.  I know that it will be hard to get through for a while, but you will.  You can spend some time lovin' on your other babies, knowing you are giving them all wonderful lives. *Huggg

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  • Thanks so much ladies. I really appreciate all your thoughts :)

    I'm still having a hard time getting through the day without wanting to cry..its hard going to the vet clinic ever day for work..and on top of that every day I"ve been there this week we've had to make a house call to help someone's dog die. *sigh* I just miss him :(  and I know kiah misses him. She just seems like she knows hes not there...and I can't do anything for her but hold her as much as I can so she doesn't get too lonely.  It makes me sick to my stomach still thinking about it :(  Its not fair he was so young... I miss hearing his little bell tinkle at night :'(

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