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I am looking for ideas for hubbs and I to spice things up! We are TTC so we are doing it alot which is great but I don't want either of us to get bored or continue to do the same thing, so if any of you ladies have any ideas I would so greatly appreciate it!!!! I tried telling him I want a little romance but he is a typical guy and doesn't get the hints or even the fact that I said it to do something.
~Kelly Marie~

Re: Spice things up??
If you can get into dressing up like in costumes such as a naughty nurse and his is a sick patient, those are fun and different. My H is big on trying it in all kids of different places- car, parks, garage, etc... Well good luck!
Wear a skirt and go out for dinner. Accidentally drop a spoon and have DH pick it up. DH notices you are also forgetful today and missed putting on your underwear.
Have DH groom or trim your pubes.
Unfortunate typo.
Stick your finger in his butt.
Watch Deliverance while fooling around.
Make HIM dress up as a naughty nurse or french maid or gorilla.
Involve foods: mustard, saurkraut, oatmeal, beef stew etc.
I get plenty of goodies from this site called Frisky City - www.friskycity.com and they have ideas for couples, women, men, gay and lesbian. I found it cheaper than other sites - we love it and have lots of fun! We've told all our friends....enjoy!
There are plenty of things to do so you guys don't get bored. Some people already said some suggestion i was gonna say but get books (they have lots of positions) watch porn together, dress up, have sex in crazy places, try toys (plenty of fun toys out there), anal play (for both of you) and of course good old bondage (various degrees so there can be fun for everyone).
I think that romance is over rated in the sex department. I would rather romance be part of the everyday stuff maybe even forplay but when it come down to sex I can do without romance. Now that's not saying that we don't have sex everyday (because sometimes we do) but you know what I mean. If that is something that you really want though you should give him suggestions, what you think is romance he might consider it something else.
It is alway important to share your new desires with him no matter how silly you think they are and make him feel save with him saring his. You don't want him to feel asamed to suggest toys because he things you will look at him different, make sexual sharing a stress free enviroment
Even though I have only been married a month, we have been together 8 years and lifed together 6. I was always worried that we would get bored but so far so good !