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He's great in bed, but he doesn't get into it as much as I do
My boyfriend and I have great sex. He knows the right moves and so on so forth. However he has admitted to me that he just doesn't get into it like most people do. He has been burned by a lot of women. He also is an airforce veteran and went long periods of time without while overseas and he says even when he came home his ex wife wouldn't put out so he got used to doing without. I however have the opposite issue. My ex- husband was a nympho, wasn't good in bed and practically molested me. Now I have a good lover and I am eating it up. But I want him to want it bad and to really get into it. Anybody have any tips?
Re: He's great in bed, but he doesn't get into it as much as I do
Now I have a good lover and I am eating it up.
I'm with you there! I think the more you have it, the more you want it. If you get into a rut of doing it once a week you'll become complancent, which has probably happened to him over time. Don't put pressure on him, just make your moves on him and try to up the sexytime. If you get into good habits together I'm sure he'll find himself wanting it like you do.
Maybe it is an emotional connection problem. I am not saying that he doesn't care or love you at all. I am just saying that guys are more emotionally sexual then they are willing to admit. Especially if he had to cut off that part of himself for so long.
I had the same problem with my husband for a while. Actually, we never went through that first month "can't get enough of each other" phase. But one night he told me a secret he had since he was a child but never told anyone because he thought people would hate him for it. After I accepted him, despite this secret, for what he was, he couldn't get his hands off of me. He said he has never felt so emotionally connected to me, and wanted to be more intimidate, and it has been ever since then. I hope that wasn't too much TMI for anyone.
Maybe you could work on being more intimate with him and it will help build back up his libido. It kinda sounds like his libido is blocked or guarded. Gentle coaxing, and warm-ups and maybe some counseling could bring him out of his shell well enough you could be writing on here asking how to keep him off you!
How slow can you be taking it, if you're all ready KU?
You need to stop putting all of your personal sh!t out there...
And you're KU? WTF.
STOP BEING SUCH A FREAKINGSLUT.
You've been w/ this guy 2 months and you are knocked up. The ink on your divorce papers isn't even dry yet. STOP already.