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Poll: how much do you share with DH?
I was telling DH some sensitive information last night and as soon as I dropped the news he said, "I really wish you hadn't told me that." It was about a close friend of mine and now he's worried about how he'll act around this person when we see them next. So that got me thinking... do I share too much?
[Poll]
BFP 12.20.2010 :: missed m/c 1/2011 around 8 weeks
BFP @ 9dpo 5.24.2011 :: missed m/c 6/2011 around 7 weeks
positive for ANAs (1:40) with a speckled pattern
MTHFR c677t mutation (heterozygous)
*folic acid, baby asprin, Prometrium,
acupuncture, Lovenox*
BFP @ 9dpo 2.1.2012 || HCG = 8 : Progesterone = 19.2
2nd HCG @ 11dpo = 40 || 3rd HCG @ 21dpo = over 5000!
Stick, little one, stick! EDD October 15, 2012

Re: Poll: how much do you share with DH?
TTC #1 since February 2011
BFP #1 1/14/12 EDD 9/24/12 m/c at 8w4d on 2/20/12
March 2012- Dx with PCOS, started metformin
July 2012- SA completely normal
BFP 12.20.2010 :: missed m/c 1/2011 around 8 weeks
BFP @ 9dpo 5.24.2011 :: missed m/c 6/2011 around 7 weeks
positive for ANAs (1:40) with a speckled pattern
MTHFR c677t mutation (heterozygous)
*folic acid, baby asprin, Prometrium, acupuncture, Lovenox*
BFP @ 9dpo 2.1.2012 || HCG = 8 : Progesterone = 19.2
2nd HCG @ 11dpo = 40 || 3rd HCG @ 21dpo = over 5000!
Stick, little one, stick! EDD October 15, 2012
I tell DH everything and if I don't it's because the source wants to tell him themselves. He and I really don't keep anything from each other and if it's involving something personal about someone else we always give the other a heads up because it may be something the other doesn't want to get too involved in. I guess it just depends on the matter.
I am a mix between the first and second options. I try to be discreet about really sensitive topics and keep secrets when asked. If the secret puts me in a weird emotional place, I will often tell the person telling me that I don't keep things from DH. If they don't want him to know, they shouldn't tell me.
The funny thing is that I sometimes neglect to tell DH important stuff because I blabber to him so much that I think I've already told him. Ha!