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How many?

So the "How Often" poll got me thinking about if the number of partners you've had has affected your drive at all.  Fess up.... how many guys have you been with???[Poll]
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Re: How many?

  • Come on.... it's completely anonymous!!! 
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  • Five yo! I think I have a normalish sex drive, with Brandon it was really low cuz he put a lot of pressure on me to have sex more so I was always really stressed about it. But I remember with my boyfriend previous to that, we humped a lot, and I'd get grouchy if we didn't hump at least like every other day lol.
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  • Adam is number 14.  I was slightly a whore for a minute.  But I also started having sex when I was 14ish.  The number jumped from 3 after HS though.  Oops.
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  • Just Matty. Same for him. We both fooled around quite a bit with other people before we met, though.
  • Adam and I have agreed that neither of us want to know each other's "number".  What was in the past is in the past.  We're both 100% disease free and will never sleep with anyone else again and that's all that matters. 
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  • Only HH. I don't know his number and I don't want to know.
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  • I've slept w/ HH and one other guy. It was while HH and I were then on a break while he figured out his "priorities" and I started dating someone else. So not worth it but oh well. HH I'm sure knows although i've never stated "XX and I had sex". I know he slept with one other person during that time as well. Not a big deal to me, like Stu said - we are here now and its who we are going to be with forever so it doesnt matter. I think as long as you are safe and smart about it, when you're single - have fun!
  • imageMrsGoontz:
    I think as long as you are safe and smart about it, when you're single - have fun!
    See... that's how I thought about it in college.  My friends would joke that I was like a guy when it came to sex.  I knew exactly what I wanted and then I got it.  If I wanted to see a guy again, I would.  If not, I didn't. 
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  • I'm the slut that put 15+.  I'm pretty sure it was around or above that number.  I was a slut in my early 20's.  I wish I had saved some of that for Adam, considering how infrequently we do it, I wish I hadn't wasted it on meaningless guys!  Though, considering I lost my virginity at 18 and I was 25 when I met Adam (and obviously only slept with him since), that's only 7 years of whore-availability (minus the 2 year long relationships), that's only about 3 guys per year, and that's not too bad, I guess.  They weren't worth it, that's for sure. 
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    <3<3 "You know my name, not my story.
    You've heard what I've done, not what I've been through.
    If you were in my shoes, you'd fall the first step." <3<3


  • Here's my timeline because I'm sure y'all REALLY want to know.

    9th Grade:  Gave up my V card to H (who was a junior).  We were together all of 9th grade until I moved that summer.

    10th Grade:  Hooked up with J.  We dated most of 10th and part of 11th.

    11th:  Stopped dating J and then met a different J, J2.  We were together the rest of 11th.  All of 12th and then part of the time while I was in college.

    J2 and I broke up and I started dating yet a different J, J3.  He didn't last long.  Started dating J2 again.  Stopped dating him.  Randomly hooked up with P a few times.  Met ANOTHER freakin J, J4 (my 6th guy).  That didn't work because he was a douche and then I started dating D.  I met I at around the same time, but dated D for a couple of months and then dated I for almost 4 years. 

    After a 4 year relationship, I went buck wild.  I hooked up with R, and then K(both guys I knew from class).  Then hooked up with B (who was one of my brother's fraternity brothers).  Wait for it...... ANOTHER J, J5.  Then C who I probably would have kept dating if he hadn't graduated and moved away :(  And then Adam and that's all she wrote.  14. 

    How crazy is it that there were FIVE guys whose names started with J???  And all of their names were different.... craziness. 

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  • imagestu31105:

    How crazy is it that there were FIVE guys whose names started with J???  And all of their names were different.... craziness. 

    So, um, I take it that you are not going to be one of those moms who gives each of her kids a "J" name?

  • imageKelly5110:
    imagestu31105:

    How crazy is it that there were FIVE guys whose names started with J???  And all of their names were different.... craziness. 

    So, um, I take it that you are not going to be one of those moms who gives each of her kids a "J" name?

    Absolutely not.  Well, at least no Joeys, Jeffs, Justins, Joshs, or Jasons
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  • imagestu31105:

    Here's my timeline because I'm sure y'all REALLY want to know.

    9th Grade:  Gave up my V card to H (who was a junior).  We were together all of 9th grade until I moved that summer.

    10th Grade:  Hooked up with J.  We dated most of 10th and part of 11th.

    11th:  Stopped dating J and then met a different J, J2.  We were together the rest of 11th.  All of 12th and then part of the time while I was in college.

    J2 and I broke up and I started dating yet a different J, J3.  He didn't last long.  Started dating J2 again.  Stopped dating him.  Randomly hooked up with P a few times.  Met ANOTHER freakin J, J4 (my 6th guy).  That didn't work because he was a douche and then I started dating D.  I met I at around the same time, but dated D for a couple of months and then dated I for almost 4 years. 

    After a 4 year relationship, I went buck wild.  I hooked up with R, and then K(both guys I knew from class).  Then hooked up with B (who was one of my brother's fraternity brothers).  Wait for it...... ANOTHER J, J5.  Then C who I probably would have kept dating if he hadn't graduated and moved away :(  And then Adam and that's all she wrote.  14. 

    How crazy is it that there were FIVE guys whose names started with J???  And all of their names were different.... craziness. 

    Wow......

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  • Plus, technically I could have been a J.  His parents and most of his family called him J.  He was just I to everyone else.  So that would have been 6 total J names. 
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  • How many we've slept with or anything? What about re-offenders (after several years)? I already voted but this makes my numbers jump one or two categories.


  • re-offenders do not count... 

    ETA:  Unless they were REEEEEEEEAAAAAALLLLLY worth it and deserve to count as two.  Unfortunately, none of my re-offenders would change my number...... :(  hahahahahaha

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  • imagestu31105:
    Plus, technically I could have been a J.  His parents and most of his family called him J.  He was just I to everyone else.  So that would have been 6 total J names. 

    Crazy!

    Every guy I dated had a biblical name, but most guys' are biblical names, so that's not too shocking. 

  • imageKelly5110:

    imagestu31105:
    Plus, technically I could have been a J.  His parents and most of his family called him J.  He was just I to everyone else.  So that would have been 6 total J names. 

    Crazy!

    Every guy I dated had a biblical name, but most guys' are biblical names, so that's not too shocking. 

    I WIN!!!  I married the first biblical guy name!!!
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  • imagestu31105:
    imageKelly5110:

    imagestu31105:
    Plus, technically I could have been a J.  His parents and most of his family called him J.  He was just I to everyone else.  So that would have been 6 total J names. 

    Crazy!

    Every guy I dated had a biblical name, but most guys' are biblical names, so that's not too shocking. 

    I WIN!!!  I married the first biblical guy name!!!

    HAHA my HH has a Biblical name to

    Two souls but a single thought; Two hearts that beat as one image
  • imagestu31105:
    imageKelly5110:

    imagestu31105:
    Plus, technically I could have been a J.  His parents and most of his family called him J.  He was just I to everyone else.  So that would have been 6 total J names. 

    Crazy!

    Every guy I dated had a biblical name, but most guys' are biblical names, so that's not too shocking. 

    I WIN!!!  I married the first biblical guy name!!!

    YOU TIE!!  I married an Adam too!! Wink

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    <3<3 "You know my name, not my story.
    You've heard what I've done, not what I've been through.
    If you were in my shoes, you'd fall the first step." <3<3


  • I'm with you on a few points Stu!

    I gave up my V card when I was 14.  But I'm a serial monogamist so my number is only 6.  And ALL of those were relationships of at least 2 years save 1.  We were really good friends and both really horny and it had been a while.  Totally wasn't awkward after either!  He even bought me my favorite pancakes the next morning!

    I've also dated three guys with a K name... in a row... and they were all KEVINs!!!!  HAHAHA Third times a charm?? =D

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  • imagebecky515:
    imagestu31105:
    imageKelly5110:

    imagestu31105:
    Plus, technically I could have been a J.  His parents and most of his family called him J.  He was just I to everyone else.  So that would have been 6 total J names. 

    Crazy!

    Every guy I dated had a biblical name, but most guys' are biblical names, so that's not too shocking. 

    I WIN!!!  I married the first biblical guy name!!!

    YOU TIE!!  I married an Adam too!! Wink

    We both win!!
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  • hahah this post made me laugh. I only slept with 2, my HH and the guy I dated before him.

    I gave up my V card at 15 to this douche that lied to me and told me he was a virgin when he wasnt!!!  I started dated Jay at 16 and the rest is history.

  • imagestu31105:
    imagebecky515:
    imagestu31105:
    imageKelly5110:

    imagestu31105:
    Plus, technically I could have been a J.  His parents and most of his family called him J.  He was just I to everyone else.  So that would have been 6 total J names. 

    Crazy!

    Every guy I dated had a biblical name, but most guys' are biblical names, so that's not too shocking. 

    I WIN!!!  I married the first biblical guy name!!!

    YOU TIE!!  I married an Adam too!! Wink

    We both win!!

    haha okay!  I'll share that trophy! ;)

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    <3<3 "You know my name, not my story.
    You've heard what I've done, not what I've been through.
    If you were in my shoes, you'd fall the first step." <3<3


  • Good idea for this thread, Stu!! I gave up my V card to the guy I dated before DH, at age 17.  He dumped me and immediately started dating one of our mutual co-workers.  Awkward turtle.  Anyway...DH and I started dating when we were 18 (we're 23 now) so it was just him and DH.  
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  • My number is exactly 2.5 hahaha

    I was with this douche in high school... he was a complete ass. He was in college and all the girls just thought he was so hot and I was all "Oooooh, he likes ME!" blech. He did the whole, "I don't normally do this, I'm so into you, I think I love you" and then RIGHT AFTER starts telling me how many girls he's had in the sack before. I swear, it was right out of a Lifetime movie. I'm totally telling my daughters about this experience when they're that age.

    Anyway, then I met Greg, so that's #2.

    the 1/2 comes in during college when Greg and I were on a break... it was this guy who I'd been dancing/getting drunk with. One night things just went a little too far, but I stopped it before anything was... ummmm... finished. hahah. So I totally don't count that as a whole one!

  • imagemeganjane86:

    My number is exactly 2.5 hahaha

    I was with this douche in high school... he was a complete ass. He was in college and all the girls just thought he was so hot and I was all "Oooooh, he likes ME!" blech. He did the whole, "I don't normally do this, I'm so into you, I think I love you" and then RIGHT AFTER starts telling me how many girls he's had in the sack before. I swear, it was right out of a Lifetime movie. I'm totally telling my daughters about this experience when they're that age.

    Anyway, then I met Greg, so that's #2.

    the 1/2 comes in during college when Greg and I were on a break... it was this guy who I'd been dancing/getting drunk with. One night things just went a little too far, but I stopped it before anything was... ummmm... finished. hahah. So I totally don't count that as a whole one!

     

    HAHAHA! I love the "half."  DH has a "half" that happened on some picnic table in 8th grade.  What in the world?!?  

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