Toledo Nesties
Dear Community,
Our tech team has launched updates to The Nest today. As a result of these updates, members of the Nest Community will need to change their password in order to continue participating in the community. In addition, The Nest community member's avatars will be replaced with generic default avatars. If you wish to revert to your original avatar, you will need to re-upload it via The Nest.
If you have questions about this, please email help@theknot.com.
Thank you.
Note: This only affects The Nest's community members and will not affect members on The Bump or The Knot.
Our tech team has launched updates to The Nest today. As a result of these updates, members of the Nest Community will need to change their password in order to continue participating in the community. In addition, The Nest community member's avatars will be replaced with generic default avatars. If you wish to revert to your original avatar, you will need to re-upload it via The Nest.
If you have questions about this, please email help@theknot.com.
Thank you.
Note: This only affects The Nest's community members and will not affect members on The Bump or The Knot.
Update...
So he won't even talk to me. He acted like a complete jerk once he got home and didn't even go to the hospital with me to see my grandma. He's now leaving a 1/2 hour early for work today to supposedly ride with another guy that he told me dont even work thursdays a few weeks ago. He didn't want me to sit by him either and fell asleep on the couch last night....
Re: Update...
I think it's time to have a very serious talk with him. Get someone to watch the kids and have a sit down. Tell him that you understand that he's tired/overworked/etc and that he probably doesn't feel like dealing with the issues, but that if he chooses to continue ignoring them, then he's going to lose you. You both need to get out what's bothering you, because there is clearly unhappiness coming from both sides.
Make sure that you let him know you're 100% serious and that something has to be done, and done NOW.
You should also consider individual counseling for yourself no matter what he ends up saying/deciding.
I'm so sorry you're dealing with this.
(((hugs)))
More hugs from me too.
Ditto everything Merin said.
Also, do you think he could be suffering from some form of depressing?
(((((((((((((hugs)))))))))))))))))))
i'm sorry that you have to go thru this and ditto everything that merin said.
Add my hugs and a ditto to Merin too.
I'm sorry.
Well that's sh!tty. Hang in there.
I too have gotten the what do you do all day (summers off when i'm with the kids all day) this house is an effin mess, or when I did clean it wasn't enough or thefukever. THAT pissed me off to no end. They have no idea how hard of a job it is to "just sit at home all day".
I hope that he will at least sit down and talk with you tonight. Keep us updated.
I'm so sorry Monica! Ditto to everything Merin said. I hope everything works out with you guys though. There must be some reason he's being so jerkish though, whether it's money, bills, work getting to him, who knows. I swear that guys get all PMSish too. But, no matter what it is - you guys have to get to the bottom of it. I know my DH will get all jerkish if he gets it in his head that he's being taken advantage of. Once we talk and he realizes that he's not - then he's all good again.
I think we are both on the same side of town if I'm not mistaken - so if you ever want to GTG - let me know!
THIS. My thoughts exactly. I am so so sorry hun.
*Arianna & Matthew*
July 26, 2008- The Best Day of Our Lives
3 years married already??
Wedding "Highlight" Video from our Reception!
Wedding Planning Bio!! My Married Bio!!