Merin's poll definitely brought back some memories and it got me thinking, so I wanted to add to it/make another one!
1. Have you ever had a one night stand?
2, Did you ever have a "friend-with-benefits"?
3. Have you ever dated/went out with someone who was married or in a relationship?
4. If given the chance, would you erase all/any of these things that you did or would you do them again(no pun intended)?
5. Have you ever been "shocked"(both good or bad) by any of your past "lovers"? (I hope you all get what I mean there :P)
Please feel free to add to this list if you would like. I hope you don't mind the questions, I was going off of my own experiences lol.
Re: Adding to Merin's Poll:
2, Did you ever have a "friend-with-benefits"? -Guilty! Of course it didn't end well because I had feelings for him. Although looking back on it I guess it was kind of like we dated because we went out and did things(Storm games, lights before christmas, etc) and hung out too.
3. Have you ever dated/went out with someone who was married or in a relationship? -Yes...twice actually(but before you think I'm a bad person, let me explain). The first guy was the FWB from above. He was trying to get out of a relationship with his GF that he busted cheating on him. We never slept together until they were broken up though. He was a good guy, I just was never sure if he just wanted a FWB or more because sometimes he seemed like he just wanted a fling and then he would bring me roses and when he found out I had feelings for him, he would always ask me how I felt for him but would never share in return. The second was my DH because his divorce wasn't final when we first met and started hanging out. So since he was technically still married, I guess he counts.
4. If given the chance, would you erase all/any of these things that you did or would you do them again(no pun intended)? -I would erase the guy I lost my virginity too because he was a loser and didn't deserve me. I think I would keep the FWB because he was a really good guy and although things didn't work out with us, he did teach me some things about myself I wouldn't have known if I hadn't met him.
5. Have you ever been "shocked"(both good or bad) by any of your past "lovers"? -Yes. The Loser I mentioned above shocked me in a big way. When we were together, my friends and I went to Cancun for spring break. I came back and things seemed wierd with him. Well, one night I found out why...his exGF was pregnant...2 months pregnant(We had been together 5 at this point). Needless to say, I walked out the door and never looked back!
-On a side note: I was shocked in a different way by a different ex. Lets just say that the first time we decided to be intimate, I sweat there was something wrong because his "friend" was the size of my thumb. I know its mean but the funny point about all of this was because he was the brother of my best friends BF(who are currently still together), so the joke now is whenever she sees me she gives me a thumbs up and laughs(and no she didn't tell her BF about it because he always wants to know why she does this!)
Married My Best Friend On May 23rd, 2009
Our Little Man is Finally Here!!!
<a href="http://s292.photobucket.com/albums/mm29/nrb0509/?action=view
1. Have you ever had a one night stand? Nope
2, Did you ever have a "friend-with-benefits"? Kind of I guess?
3. Have you ever dated/went out with someone who was married or in a relationship? Nope
4. If given the chance, would you erase all/any of these things that you did or would you do them again(no pun intended)? Like others have said, the past put me where I am today and I'm good with that.
5. Have you ever been "shocked"(both good or bad) by any of your past "lovers"? (I hope you all get what I mean there :P) Don't think so.
I sound like the most boring person ever, haha. I had some crazy times, but I just didn't do that much sexin'.
1. Have you ever had a one night stand? Nope
2. Did you ever have a "friend-with-benefits"? Yes, lol.
3. Have you ever dated/went out with someone who was married or in a relationship? Nope
4. If given the chance, would you erase all/any of these things that you did or would you do them again (no pun intended)? Not even a little bit.
5. Have you ever been "shocked"(both good or bad) by any of your past "lovers"? (I hope you all get what I mean there :P) Nope, I'm boring, too, lol.
2, Did you ever have a "friend-with-benefits"? yes, then I ditched him for dh
3. Have you ever dated/went out with someone who was married or in a relationship? not that I know of
4. If given the chance, would you erase all/any of these things that you did or would you do them again(no pun intended)? I wouldn't erase all of it, but I don't know if I would do the same things again
5. Have you ever been "shocked"(both good or bad) by any of your past "lovers"? (I hope you all get what I mean there :P) no
hahaha...I'm choosing not to officially repsond because answering these makes me totally sound like a whorish slut. XD
I'm pleading the 5th!!!
1. Have you ever had a one night stand? No
2, Did you ever have a "friend-with-benefits"? Yes
3. Have you ever dated/went out with someone who was married or in a relationship? Yes - the FWB
4. If given the chance, would you erase all/any of these things that you did or would you do them again(no pun intended)? I would erase 1 guy - he put me in a really bad state of mind mentally for about a year
5. Have you ever been "shocked"(both good or bad) by any of your past "lovers"? (I hope you all get what I mean there :P) Yes - I had a similar thumb sized situation hehe
1. Have you ever had a one night stand? Nope!
2, Did you ever have a "friend-with-benefits"? Nope! Althouh I guess Matt and I were kind of starting to like eachother while I was still with my previous boyfriend.
3. Have you ever dated/went out with someone who was married or in a relationship? No.
4. If given the chance, would you erase all/any of these things that you did or would you do them again(no pun intended)? No. I'm pretty innocent when it comes to love/sex. I've only slept with DH.
5. Have you ever been "shocked"(both good or bad) by any of your past "lovers"? (I hope you all get what I mean there :P) I only have DH, haha. My last boyfriend we did some stuff but I a. can't remember specifics about his situation and b. had no previous experience to compare it to at the time. I can say DH beats the pants off ex-boyfriend though.
*Arianna & Matthew*
July 26, 2008- The Best Day of Our Lives
3 years married already??
Wedding "Highlight" Video from our Reception!
Wedding Planning Bio!! My Married Bio!!