September 2010 Weddings
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WR question

Against what I felt like doing, I sent out thank you cards to all of the people who attended my wedding regardless of whether they gave us gifts or not.  NOW that I sent them out (really nice fancy ones) I have started to get a couple of gifts from those people...do I send them another thank you card?  Is it ok if it is not the same fancy/expensive ones that we ordered with our picture on it?  Aka, can I send them a regular old thank you card this time around?

Re: WR question

  • We also sent TY cards to everyone.  I wouldn't send them another TY card this time around, but that's just my opinion.
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  • If you don't have any "fancy" TY cards around, I'd still send them one even if it is a generic one & you already sent them one for the wedding before the gift. Or I'm just big on TY's .. I feel it's the least I can do for such a generous & thoughtful act.
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  • Yay and also bugger. I'd send another one but I'm crazy about thank you cards. I would use a generic card.
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  • Are these people that you would feel comfortable just calling up to tell them thank you this time around?  If so, I might do it that way.  Otherwise, another thank you is probably the polite/correct thing to do.  I wouldn't worry about sending another fancy one, though.  You already sent them one of those.
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  • I would either call or send another TY card because I know if I were the sender I'd be wondering if you received the gift or not.
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  • You are so nice for sending them out to everyone. I'm mean so I wouldn't send another. I'd call (still nice) or just consider them thoroughly thanked.

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  • I'm planning on sending another one of I get more gifts.

    Edit: If you have leftover fancy ones, I would use them.  But I'm not really one to talk, because I ran out of nice ones and had to go buy some generic ones at Target, and it just so happens that those are the ones the non-gift-givers got, because I waited to send theirs.  And I feel crappy, like they'll think I didn't want to waste my nice TYs on them because they didn't give a gift, and that is not the case at all.

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  • I'm a freak about thank you cards, so I would, but like others said, probably a generic one.
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  • Some sort of TY is necessary.  I say do whatever you're comfortable with (verbal, mailing one).  But I don't think it's a big deal to use a generic one either.
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