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How to talk to my boyfriend about our sex life.
I'm in a still kinda new relationship with a wonderful guy. We had sex for the first time last weekend. He is so scared something will happen if we do not use a condom and I am also on birth control. At the same time he isnt able to *** with a condom on. So for him to enjoy our time I give him oral sex. To me it seems that he likes that more then the other and I dont know how to take that or talk to him about it. What do I do.
Re: How to talk to my boyfriend about our sex life.
Well it might be a good idea to make sure that this isnt just a ploy to make sure he gets lots of oral sex....??
However, apart from that, what exactly is the problem;.......do you mean he is not able to reach orgasm when using a condom or that he cannot maintain an erection with one on??
Lots of us men view condoms as a neccessary evil and have trouble reaching orgasm when using them,...you just make sure your partner gets their pleasure (if she needs vigorous intercourse) and then pull off the condom and orgasm outside the vagina using another form of love-play,.....perhaps NOT oral. Personally, I have come to see the 'endgame' without the condom (which is very uncomfortable to me) as very intimate/sensual and sometimes the best part of love-making when we talk and whisper to eachother while bringing eachother off with our hands and fingers. In fact, if you both enjoy having orgasms together then this kind of mutual masturbation/petting is easier to synchronise than intercourse.
However, if you want to talk to him about it, choose a non-sexual environment, such as in the car while driving, and tell him what YOU would like to experience and ask for his help and patience in achieving it!
..........No real man will refuse a lady's request!!
You move on because you are not happy in this relationship sexually. He can't get it up with a condom on, and he won't (AND YOU SHOULDN"T have sex without one...... BC DOES NOT PROTECT AGAINST STD's).
Move on and find a guy that can get it up with protection.
BE SAFE!!
Sara, Friend?
glove slap. I don't take crap.