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Uncertainty blows

My mom just called. My grandmother has been in a hospital a few days and although she is being released back to her retirement home, things are not great. her heart is weakening. But, the doctors really cannot say. She could live another year, she could live another week. My mom sounds really sad.

She asked me how important it was for Dagger to meet my grandma. To me, it is really important. I adore this woman and I am named after her. She wrote a book once and dedicated it to me. She is my last remaining grandparent and I have a lot of regret over not seeing my right grandfather before he died.

My brother works for American, so we can fly standby for almost free. My parents are coming down this Thursday anyway and my mom offered to fly with us. But, Mr. Winged has offered to go (even though he would have to take off work so I assumed he couldn't).

Flying is hard. I am tired from a poor sleeper. We have something every night this week and the next several weekends are booked. But, I feel like I would never get over it if she didn't live until Christmas.

Re: Uncertainty blows

  • Go.  You'll be so pissed at yourself for not going just because you're tired and frustrated.

    Cancel some of your other activities.

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  • Don't wait. 

    I'm sorry Winger.

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  • Ditto. Even if she does live until Christmas you won't regret going now.
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  • Yup, just go. Family first.
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  • Go. Don't regret it. Your other obligations can wait.

    I'm sorry, this has to be so hard. :(

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  • Just go -- my grandfather met my niece when she was about 2 and 1/2 months old, about a month before he died, when my sister came home for our other grandmother's funeral.

    My grandfather and niece shared a birthday (albeit 93 years apart) and the picture of him holding her is just a treasure.

  • Yeah, I would definitely go.
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  • I'm so sorry Winger.

    I definitely think you should go.


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  • oh we will go. i don't think i made that clear. i am just sad. i had great visions of christmas.

     

  • I'm sorry Winged.  I hope that she does last through Christmas and beyond.
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  • I'm really sorry! I hate that you have to deal with this. I hope that you have a nice visit and that she is feeling better.
  • Maybe grandma is just faking so she can get her Christimas gifts early this year.  You should call her on it.
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  • I knew she was sneaky.

    Well, it looks like Mr. Winged cannot go after all. So, my mom will fly down with us and I will fly back alone. nervesnervesnerves

  • You can do it Wingeypants. I've flown with Will alone a few times and it's been okay. All but one flight attendant on every flight we've been on has been incredibly accommodating and friendly when I've been with Will. A couple hours of nerves and potential frustration will be totally worth it to see her. We're so lucky that Lorne's grandma has lived long enough to meet Will and Evie, I wish my grandma had too. I'm really glad you're going, and I hope she blows them all away and lives for another 10 years.

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  • Thanks noisy!

    I mean, Dagger did really well on the last flights, it was just that terrible experience with the flight attendant that makes me nervous.

    This is a different airline though.

  • The last flight attendant took you by surprise.  This time you'll be ready for 'em, should they feel the need to be douchey toward you.
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  • I'm glad you're going, and I hope your flights are manageable!  I hope your grandma gets better and enjoys hanging out with Dagger.
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  • Our one awful flight attendant was on the second leg of our flight home from England. I wanted to murder her. They had the fasten seat belt sign on the entire flight, but lots of people were getting up to walk around and go to the bathroom. Every time Lorne or I stood to try to bounce Will for a minute to calm him down she came over and yelled at us. And we were next to a crusty old man that was clearly annoyed that our child was crying. "Can't you make him sleep or something?" OH THANKS, I HADN'T THOUGHT OF THAT.

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  • I'm sorry Wingading :(
  • Sorry about your grandmother, Winged...  :(
  • imagenoisy_penguin:

    Our one awful flight attendant was on the second leg of our flight home from England. I wanted to murder her. They had the fasten seat belt sign on the entire flight, but lots of people were getting up to walk around and go to the bathroom. Every time Lorne or I stood to try to bounce Will for a minute to calm him down she came over and yelled at us. And we were next to a crusty old man that was clearly annoyed that our child was crying. "Can't you make him sleep or something?" OH THANKS, I HADN'T THOUGHT OF THAT.

    You should have showed him your fist and said "I can make you sleep".

  • I'm so sorry you're going through this winged. I'm glad you're able to go.
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  • Aw, winged that sucks.  I'm sorry you are going through this.  I hope you get to spend lots of quality time with your grandma now AND at Christmas.
  • Thanks everyone.

    My mom and I (and Dagger) are booked to fly out Saturday and I am coming back alone on Monday. My brother is trying to see if he can get us more confirmed seats as an emergency medical thing.

     

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