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Show and tell

...when we last left the story

My H had texted our male friend to let him know that he was sorry that the wife and I had fallen out and hoped things would work out one day for us to be friends again. He had responded similarly and my H said something about BFF4LYF. This was their only contact. This was like 3 or 4 weeks ago?

Sunday, she texted me (they overlap a little):

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Re: Show and tell

  • She's a peach. By "getting our marriage worked out" does she mean "trying to keep the charade that I didn't cheat on him going"?
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  • She's definitely afraid Mr. Winged is going to tell her husband.
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  • buddha, post after post on her FB has been her going out partying and pictures of her drunk with her crew. Nothing about her husband, etc. So, yeah.

    And she is obviously getting paranoid (they will be at voodoo next weekend and she already told me to not talk to them if we see them).

    And, we are leaving them alone. But we do want him to know we will be there for him, which we have. How mean is she to try to block him from one of the few friends he has left?

  • I honestly don't think I would even respond if she texts you again. She does not get to set the terms of your relationship with her husband or of your husband's.
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  • What a lunatic.  Do you think her h knows anything about her indiscretions and what he's getting himself back into?

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  • I hope you aren't still feeling bad about losing this woman as a friend - because she sucks.  I feel so bad for her H.
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  • LMAO!  Well, at least you know she misses you.  She's just stirring up drama from nothing now.  There's no reason for her to be contacting you over this, so it's likely an excuse just for her to tell you that her and K are trying to work things out.  She was probably hoping you'd high-five her or something.

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  • imageboxerfan:
    I hope you aren't still feeling bad about losing this woman as a friend - because she sucks.  I feel so bad for her H.

    No, I don't. I feel bad that she is suffering from a mental illness that is affecting her kids and her husband and her. but our ship has sailed. This is more than I can take.

    imageNovemberrocks:

    What a lunatic.  Do you think her h knows anything about her indiscretions and what he's getting himself back into?

    He knows. he knew before and has flat out asked her, according to her. But she has not come clean. But, I don't honestly think "they are trying to work it out". SHe is trying to give the impression that they are working on it, but this text makes it obvious she is lying about that.

  • Someone's shaking in her boots and trying to cover her tracks!
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  • imagewingedbride:
    But, I don't honestly think "they are trying to work it out". SHe is trying to give the impression that they are working on it, but this text makes it obvious she is lying about that.

    Do you think he's going to get out? Is there any chance y'all will get dragged into any litigation if the divorce is nasty? 

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  • Thanks Hezz. Although I have been waiting for fallin to come in and judge me for it.

    imagebuddhagouda:

    imagewingedbride:
    But, I don't honestly think "they are trying to work it out". SHe is trying to give the impression that they are working on it, but this text makes it obvious she is lying about that.

    Do you think he's going to get out? Is there any chance y'all will get dragged into any litigation if the divorce is nasty? 

    I am not sure, honestly. And I hadn't even thought about litigation. of course, if that were the case, I have texts from her admitting to the infidelity, so....

  • She sucks. It's not your fault she betrayed her husband.
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  • Yowza Winger.
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  • I think the responsible thing to do is to forward this string of texts to her husband with a 'I'm really sorry that we're interfering with your working out your marriage.'

    I'm not sure if this is a good idea or just one that's mildly entertaining for me, so take it with a grain of salt. 

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