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Awesome.

I get to go to the courthouse to schedule my court date the week of Christmas. How festive!
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  • Yuck.  Well at least for Christmas, you'll get the nice present of a divorce from the DB.
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  • imagebecky515:
    Yuck.  Well at least for Christmas, you'll get the nice present of a divorce from the DB.

    Agreed! Gotta look at the silver lining

  • Right?!?!  I was going to say "That sure sounds like a GREAT Christmas present though!!!!"
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  • That's just to schedule the date, I can't actually schedule it for anytime before January 4th. But yes, it will be a lovely slightly belated Christmas present! :)


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  • imagehayleymajayley:

    That's just to schedule the date, I can't actually schedule it for anytime before January 4th. But yes, it will be a lovely slightly belated Christmas present! :)


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  • DH's divorce from his 1st wife (I'm the second wife - and last, hahaha) was finalized on his birthday.

     

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  • I think in NC you have to be separated for a year before you can get divorced.  Is that not true where you live?
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  • imageashstwrt:
    I think in NC you have to be separated for a year before you can get divorced.  Is that not true where you live?

    That varies from state to state. I live on the Iowa/Illinois border and the laws in each state are very different. I know that in Illinois, a former co-worker's spouse wouldn't sign the paperwork so she had to wait for two years to go by, living completely separately, before the courts would finalize the divorce that she filed for. Before Matt, I dated a loser who was going through a divorce and he was forced to go through 12 weeks of court-ordered counseling with STBXW before the court would even look at the divorce.

    Hang in there hayley! It will be here before you know it! Happy belated Xmas to you! 

  • I agree with pp's, look at the silver lining! At least you'll be rid of him!
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  • I don't know your situation - sorry to hear about the divorce. But i would consider it a Christmas gift to schedule the hearing and a New Year's Resolution to finalize the divorce.  Here is to a fab 2011 for you! :)
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  • imageLoveBug0516:
    I don't know your situation - sorry to hear about the divorce. But i would consider it a Christmas gift to schedule the hearing and a New Year's Resolution to finalize the divorce.  Here is to a fab 2011 for you! :)

    Agree!!! I will be a great begining to a new year for you!!

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  • It'll be like ordering a Christmas present for yourself and then having to wait for it to arrive by UPS. Gift
  • It's a Christmas miracle!!

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  • Haha it is! The laws are pretty sweet here, you just file the paperwork, wait 90 days and then go to court. Well, if you don't have kids or anything. Which we obviously don't! If you have kids you have to go to parenting classes and stuff. So at least it'll be relatively quick.
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  • imageKelly5110:
    It'll be like ordering a Christmas present for yourself and then having to wait for it to arrive by UPS. Gift

    I LOVE UPS! Sorry had to comment on that!

    Here in Vegas I filed for divorce on Thursday of one week and was Divorced by the Wednesday of the following week! WOOOHOOO!

    My sister is waiting to schedule her date as well up there in Washington! UGH! hang in there kiddo 2011 is gonna be a great year! You have your house your puppy and your life back! No more pain in the arse depressed hubby! I know its hard but it will get easier! I am sure you have your highs n lows but we are are here for you!!!

  • Oooh pam I am jealous!! I wish I was already divorced! What a pain in the butt. If he'd only told me like a few weeks before we could be all divorced before the end of the year and I could start 2011 fresh! Oh well. Better than waiting a year!
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