August 2010 Weddings
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SIL's engagement party tonight :0/

And DH will have to fly solo for this one.

I just haven't forgiven his family for attempting to destroy our wedding, and just can't imagine spending an evening celebrating with them.  Instead I am going out for japanese with a friend.

Is that so bad?

 

 

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Re: SIL's engagement party tonight :0/

  • I think as long as your husband understands that is all that matters!  But, take my advice with a grain of salt, I don't speak to my in-laws at all, they were not even invited to our wedding because of how I have been treated by them.  

    Have fun at Japanese!  Have a shot of Saki for me! 

  • Good for you for standing your ground and sticking up for yourself.  I've dealt with a lot of drama from my in-laws, and am just fine with not having to see them either.  I hope you have a great night with your friends!
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  • Wow, nice to know I'm not the only one with in-law issues.

    But I guess the big question is, should I go to the wedding?

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  • I would suggest you do go to the wedding, just to prove you're the adult in this situation, if nothing else.  That's probably what I would do.  But if you really feel that that is like excusing their behavior, talk it over with your H, and if he supports you missing that evening too, save yourself the drama.

    However, if you ever hope to reconcile (which you may not care to) I have a feeling you'll have to be the one to remind them of how horrible they treated you...by being much kinder to them.

    Enjoy your sushi :-) 

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