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I like to think I am independent...
where my HH can go off and do his thing and I mine. No big deal. Last night and tonight have totally sucked. I keep wandering around the house wondering what I should do next. I have barely seen my HH since last Wednesday. = (
Thursday night I have a standing date with my BFF for dinner at her place, by the time I got home he was ready for bed. Friday I got home, he took a nap and then I headed to my parents for the weekend. HH helped a friend move Saturday and Sunday night went to his first Packer game. He got home at 2 a.m., and I was fast asleep. I had to scoot to work early today so he was still sleeping when I left and he has to work late tonight... like just got off and it is after 10 p.m. He still has his 1 1/2 hour commute. By the time he gets home, I will be heading to bed. This totally blows.
I miss my hubby.
**Sigh**
Re: I like to think I am independent...
I feel ya! With DH in med school he's in class all day and usually studies most of the night. I usually have to go to bed before he even finishes because he's usually still going at 1:00/2:00 in the morning. We'll maybe get to watch a show or two together (or I'll have time with him when he's procrastinating)... but I'm sure it's only going to get worse from here... and I don't have any friends in Chicago yet.
/rant
Sounds to me like you might what to schedule time together. There is nothing wrong with making a schedule. You schedule doing stuff with friends. You schedule work. Why not set some time aside for you and your hubby! Marriage is work and saying hey I need some quality time with my partner in life is a good thing. You need to remember somethin my pastor long ago said and I have stuck to. You and your Hubby should always be the center of the universe. People and plans should revolve around your and your relationship. If that starts getting interference your whole world could come crashing down. Obviously the falling apart thing takes a long time.
I am willing to bet he is feeling the same way. Sounds to me like you need to reconnect! Go on a date!!!
I agree with Pam-- schedule some time together! Sounds like you both need it!
I'm in the middle of my Matt-less stretch of the week. He slept most of Sunday and went to work Monday morning. I didn't get home until late, and tonight is his late night. I don't really see him from Sunday night until Wednesday night most weeks, and then he usually works sort of late on Thursdays, too. So Wednesdays are our "dinner together" nights.