May 2010 Weddings
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Re: Anybody else miss out on Divorce Drama and want the background info?
for some reason it's not letting me send the PMs so here you go :
Basically, on September 4th Brandon went to stay at my best friend's apartment, to try and sort out his feelings. He couldn't tell if he really loved me and wanted to be married to me or if he was just scared to be without me because I provided for him in every way. And things had been kinda rough for a while, we'd been fighting, he was depressed and had been drinking more, so I thought great, he can get some space and clear his head. It totally didn't bother me that he was you know staying with my FEMALE best friend. So things were rough, at first I just cried so much because he wouldn't come home, but at the same time I told him he needed to be gone to figure his *** out, I felt like if he just came home he still wouldn't know if he really wanted to be with me or not. So he kept going back and forth, one day things were great, the next he wanted a divorce. Then one day out of NO WHERE he said he wanted a baby RIGHT AWAY which was extra weird because he had never wanted a kid before. So *** was just weird, then one night, I think it was the very end of september, I was out at Denny's with a friend on a saturday at like 1am and he called my phone, drunk, was yelling at me, apparently he heard dudes in the background and thought I was hangin out with some guys but it was just me and a girlfriend, the guys weren't even sitting anywhere near us. He demanded I drive like 30 min to go get him because he was drunk and he wanted to come home. I knew he would just yell at me and we would fight if that happened so I told him I wouldn't go get him. So instead he drove home drunk, we fought for HOURS and during that fight he admitted that he cheated on me with my best friend. Then he'd take it back. Then admit it again. Then say he was just saying it to piss me off, it didn't really happen. Eventually I got him to calm down and go to sleep. The next morning I confronted my "best friend" about it and she admitted they'd had sex twice, so that morning I moved all of his *** out to the garage, and I filed for divorce later that week. So the divorce isn't final yet, I'll get a court date sometime after January 4th which hopefully won't be too far out, so I'll be divorced in time for valentines day! Haha. Hurrah. Yeah and now he's just kind of crazy and weird. So weird. Whatever though, I'm not planning on ever speaking to him again. Hahaha hope you enjoyed my tale!!
AWFUL! What an @ss!! And what's up with your BFF - skanky! On a serious note, thanks for sharing. I am so sorry you had to experience that. Were you ever able to figure out if they slept together before or after the wedding? I admire your courage and strength. Many women would have looked the other way to avoid dealing with it. I always tell DH that i would leave in a blink if i was cheated on (physically or emotionally), i was hit/beaten, or completely lost security.
Again, its a shame you have to experience any of this but happy to hear you are handling it well and keeping your head high!
GP buddy to blenderdance