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Thank you card etiquette...?

Hey ladies... I'm in need of some help. As far as wedding thank you cards go... do we send them to EVERYONE who attended, gift or not? Or just those who gave us a gift? I'm getting differing opinions from people. TIA!! :)

Re: Thank you card etiquette...?

  • We sent them to everyone who attended our wedding regardless if they gave a gift or not.  For those who we didn't get us a "physical" gift from, which spending all the money to be there for our day was gift enough, we wrote something like:

    Thanks for being with us on our special day, we are so happy you were able to be here with us.  Maybe include something personal about the trip that you did with that person, etc.

  • If in doubt, send one anyway. You will never go wrong with sending one.

  • We did everyone who we either got a card or gift from.  I'm pretty sure everyone that was there got a thank you. 

    If people travelled to your wedding, they should get a thank you.

  • imageBigwuhead:

    If people travelled to your wedding, they should get a thank you.

    This.

  • Everyone who came to our wedding got a thank you, regardless of the gift.  People who came to our reception got a thank you card if they got us a gift and/or a card. 
    A & T Since 2009 Parents of A born July 2010
  • imageAlaskanAlison:

    If in doubt, send one anyway. You will never go wrong with sending one.

     This is a good rule of thumb. 

    We gave thank you cards to everyone who came to the wedding, then the AHR was just people who gave gifts or sent cards.  I figure if you would have told them "No, just your presence at the wedding is present enough", and they came they get a thank you note.

    Smile 

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  • Ok, so I guess I should clarify...noone except for parents were invited/came to the wedding, and EVERYONE was invited to the AHR... :)
  • LOL... in that case, I would do a TY card for whomever you got a gift/card from.
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