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Anyone still following the Doughmesstic mess?

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I bet her FUPA's name is Shane, like the gunslinger/drifter of literature.--HappyTummy

Re: Anyone still following the Doughmesstic mess?

  • Holy crap. I kind of am shocked!

    I feel real bad for her.

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  • I was just thinking about that blog the other day, but when I tried to view the secret posts the passwords I had didn't bring up anything interesting.

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  • I forgot all about her, thanks for the reminder!

    That is is awful he did it again, I feel awful for her. I guess having sex with him in his truck was not the cure after all.

  • Yeah, I read it.  It's one of those, "fool me once...fool me twice" scenarios.  It's not that I think she deserves to be treated poorly, but I do think she welcomes being treated poorly.

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  • imageNovemberrocks:

    Yeah, I read it.  It's one of those, "fool me once...fool me twice" scenarios.  It's not that I think she deserves to be treated poorly, but I do think she welcomes being treated poorly.

    I couldn't agree with you more.

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    I bet her FUPA's name is Shane, like the gunslinger/drifter of literature.--HappyTummy
  • I still feel it's weird to put this all on the internet. And the "secret" thing is just ridiculous. If random people like me can read your secrets, they're not really secret.

    Remember that crap about the marriage counselor who thought they were the best communicators ever, and like, they totally didn't need marriage counseling and she could just look at them with her special marriage counselor eyes and say, "You're going to be okay"? Remember that?

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  • Once of the reasons cheating is a dealbreaker for me is that I think that taking the cheater back lets him or her believe that he or she will be taken back next time. So I'm with Nov.
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  • Whoa, she responded at the end of the TIP post:

     

    FYI, I delete nothing.

    not everything in life is so cut and dry. we're all different. I just write. there are people who supprt me, people who don't. I don't write for support. I just write for me. And to show that we all have our own ways of dealing with what life hands us.

    I think I've been dealt a lot this year.  And so yeah, my husband is a do*che. But not 24-7. And we all have to learn what we can and can't deal with.

    This is my fool me twice moment.

    It's okay if you hate me.

    I don't even know why I am responding to this.  I guess I am crazier than i thought.

     

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  • imageFallinAgain:
    Once of the reasons cheating is a dealbreaker for me is that I think that taking the cheater back lets him or her believe that he or she will be taken back next time. So I'm with Nov.

    Despite her anger I can totally see her taking him back after this time too and I think he know that. Or he just doesn't care anymore. I wonder how the woman's husband knew about it since I thought they were splitting up.

  • I think this explains a lot. Her H is just an innocent puppy.

    imagedoughmesstic:

    I have no plans.

    And martyr I am not. I never once thought I was. I gave up a lot, and I am NOT perfect in any way. Yes, I have low self esteem. Big deal. But that's not why I stayed. I stayed because our lives truly were better. Believe it or not.

    I write the bad stuff. I'm in no mood to defend him today.

    I have no plans.

    And I do dare anyone that has been cheated on to NOT hate the mistress.

    Take a dog for example. Your favorite puppy. That you love. And a stranger comes with treats, and your little dog hops in the car with them. Who do you hate? The dog? The treats? Life is not so simple.

    I'm not mad at anyone on these boards. Just please keep in mind I am a person.

    I shouldn't have followed the link here in the first place.

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  • Wow, what a complete and total non-surprise!  It's horrible she has to go through this again, but I hope she's learned that her husband doesn't deserve another chance.  And I hope she stops pretending that they can fix this with their super amazing powers of communication that therapists the world over envy.
    I admit I've only read her blog posts on this subject, but she just seems like such a manic person.  I hope she gets some self esteem.

    On the bright side, at least her blog is getting lots of hits.

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    "That chick wins at Penises, for sure." -- Fenton
  • OMFG Noisy.  That's so gross.  How could he possibly resist treats?  It's not like he's an adult human or anything.

    She's totally going to take him back.


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  • Can you not hate the stupid dog and the treat giver? And would you not say to the treat giver, hey keep the dog.  I want a smart, loyal dog. 
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  • yeah, but she also fvcks the dog in the back seat...so...you know..

    a dog fvcker is a dog fvcker is a dog fvcker...

    It's gross that they're fighting over such a grody dog to begin with...what a prize the winner gets...

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  • All that energy she is using to just make it through a day with him...she needs to take that and redirect it towards herself and her son. It takes way less energy when you aren't walking on eggshells or having to listen to excuses and BS and constantly wondering what does xyz mean?

     

  • And why would anyone want to salvage a relationship where you spend all your time thinking about your husband having sex with another woman?  Even if he hadn't cheated again, she should have ended the marriage.  I don't care how much "better" things are -- if you can't get past the cheating, there's nothing left that's worth saving.
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    "That chick wins at Penises, for sure." -- Fenton
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