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Talk to me about sex toys and games
We're looking for something to spice up the bedroom. All we have is a pair of handcuffs and feel we need to expand....so what do you recommend? What have you tried and liked? Where do you get it? We're open to almost anything! TIA!!!
Re: Talk to me about sex toys and games
Sex is between the ears, not ordered from a sex shop.
Make a Honey Do Me jar. Write up some fantasies (even ones you are too scared to discuss out loud) and put them in a jar. Every so often, pull one out on a Monday -- then plan on making it happen before the end of the week.
I think the first (and easiest!) step is to figure out what you both like and maybe aren't necessarily doing. Something as simple as leaving the lights on (or turning them off, if you're the kind who usually keeps them on) can add to the experience. The above poster with the Honey Do Me jar is a great idea. If you can't think of anything that you'd be interested in trying that you haven't done, then consider reading some erotic stories online (www.literotica.com is a GREAT resource) and getting ideas from there.
I'm going to guess from your description of your toy chest that you haven't really delved into any kind of kink yet, and you don't necessarily need to...but you can take a clue from some of it. Sensation play -- everything from dripping warm candle wax to running feathers/fur over the body to spankings -- can be a very good place to start. Of course, if you've done all that already, check out some of the toys at www.extremerestraints.com or www.babeland.com to see if any of them tickle your fancy.
First talk about sex, fantasies and all that fun stuff. Make sure that you're both open and honest before you try a ton of stuff, you need to have that first.
Going to the sex shop together is a lot of fun too, go look at everything, see what's out there, get ideas if nothing else. Maybe pick up a vibrator while you're there. They're fun to play with as a couple, get your H to use it on you. You say you have handcuffs, use the handcuffs and a blind fold and tease each other that way. Put on some sexy outfits and do a little role playing. Initiate sex in different rooms, get a book of positions and go through them together trying out the ones you think you'd like.
I love tasteful treasures- maybe go online together and look around and see if anything sparks an interest, then maybe after you talk you can go back alone and order something he seemed into and suprise him.
They are good products and great service- and dont worry about shipping- it is maked plain and nothing would hint its sex toys or anything!
I think maybe just some new lube, flavored, toys, or a vibrator might add some spice
hope this helps!
1)I second using vibratino (a vibrator, vibrating c**k ring or vibrating butt plug) and 2)the we-vibe is great 3)the liberator cushions are lots of fun w/o seeming like a sex toy