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Bummed!!

So DH and I have been together for almost 8 years. When we got married we decided I would stop by BC and see what happens with getting pregnant. My periods have been pretty regular since I stopped BC.

 

Needless to say I was 5 days late and so excited to think that I was pregnant!! Well I just got my period and I'm really bummed!! I know it will happen when its time, but I was really excited. I don't want to stress so we'll see what happens! Just wanted to share with you girls because no one else really understands and you girls are so supportive!!

Thanks!! Just needed to vent a little! 

Re: Bummed!!

  • TTC is a bltch. seriously, a bltch. It is impossible to not stress about this kind of thing. It drives me nuts when people say "just relax it will happen..." ... well after trying for months and months and it doesn't happen, you can't really relax.

     

    We've been TTC for a while... this is the end of cycle 4. I test tomorrow. And I'm freaking out a little bit. Good luck and I hope we're both KTFU soon!

  • i'm sorry :(  i wont say relax and let it happen, lol.
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  • imagechrisnjay05212010:
    i'm sorry :(  i wont say relax and let it happen, lol.

     

    Thank you Chris Stick out tongue

  • imagechrisnjay05212010:
    i'm sorry :(  i wont say relax and let it happen, lol.

    LOL Me, neither. You have my sympathy and prayers, which makes it sound like someone died, but you get my point. Smile It will happen, and when it does, it will be just right!

  • imageKelly5110:

    imagechrisnjay05212010:
    i'm sorry :(  i wont say relax and let it happen, lol.

    LOL Me, neither. You have my sympathy and prayers, which makes it sound like someone died, but you get my point. Smile It will happen, and when it does, it will be just right!

    Same here, everything will happen in God's timeSmile

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  • thanks girls!! I really need to find a hobby so I can have something else to focus on! Any ideas???
  • imagemandac033:
    thanks girls!! I really need to find a hobby so I can have something else to focus on! Any ideas???

    hmmm can you focus on the holidays for now? 

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  • imagemandac033:
    thanks girls!! I really need to find a hobby so I can have something else to focus on! Any ideas???

    Crochet or knitting? Reading? Working out? Those are my favorites right now.

  • I completely know how you feel. Trust me! It's hard not to get consumed in it
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  • I am right there with you all. I, too, need to find something to keep me distracted so that I don't stress over it. I am trying not to think about it so much and just have fun. 

    I just keep telling myself that the time will come when it is right. I know it's hard, but it's nice to have such a good group of us on here that are trying and can support each other. Sending some baby fairy dust to you all!  

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  • I'm staying pretty busy just with everyday life and the online classes I've been taking lately. Aside from that though I love to read and cook. Do you like any type of crafting?
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  • My DH and I had been together for 5 years and we're ready to just let everything happen when we got married. My periods where very regular before we started having sex after we got married. When I was 5/6 days late in August, I just knew I was preggo, but then I started the next day. I was still upset because I had just talked myself into believing I was preggo. Even if you're just letting things happen, it's still very hard not to get your expectations/hopes up each month! I'm sending sticky dust your way!
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  • I think I'm going to start doing some sort of crafting and going to the gym. I would really like to start scrapbooking.I need to go to Michaels and get some sort of starter kit for it. Maybe I'll do that tomorrow!  I think that would relieve some stress. Thanks for all your kind words girls! 

    We're gonna continue to go with the flow and hopefully things will all work out on their own. I am just so nervous that we won't be able to get pregnant for some reason and then have to go through all the infertility stuff! I need to stop worrying. Doesn't help anything!  

  • imagemandac033:

    I think I'm going to start doing some sort of crafting and going to the gym. I would really like to start scrapbooking.I need to go to Michaels and get some sort of starter kit for it. Maybe I'll do that tomorrow!  I think that would relieve some stress. Thanks for all your kind words girls! 

    We're gonna continue to go with the flow and hopefully things will all work out on their own. I am just so nervous that we won't be able to get pregnant for some reason and then have to go through all the infertility stuff! I need to stop worrying. Doesn't help anything!  

     

    I keep thinking the same thing, but know I need to stop. I told DH that if we are can't get pregnant after a year of trying then I would like to see a fertility specialist. Even though I know it can take at least a year to get pregnant. I don't know though. I know I need to stop stressing.  

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  • imagemandac033:

    I think I'm going to start doing some sort of crafting and going to the gym. I would really like to start scrapbooking.I need to go to Michaels and get some sort of starter kit for it. Maybe I'll do that tomorrow!  I think that would relieve some stress. Thanks for all your kind words girls! 

    We're gonna continue to go with the flow and hopefully things will all work out on their own. I am just so nervous that we won't be able to get pregnant for some reason and then have to go through all the infertility stuff! I need to stop worrying. Doesn't help anything!  

    this is a good idea, i can only imagine how hard it is not to stress and it wont help anything. I hope you can find something to focus on, Def sending baby dust to all you trying to TTC

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