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Something Special..

My husband and I have been married for almost 3 1/2 months, and we've never spent a night apart, but then last monday he left for what was supposed to be 5 days on work, and it has turned into looking like almost 2 weeks! Both of us are going crazy, and since he is coming home in a few days I want to surprise him with something special. I'm on the curvier side, and was wondering if there is some flattering, but still sexy, lingerie out there for girls like me..? Also any ideas to help heat up that night? We'll be crazy enough but I want to make it special. 

Re: Something Special..

  • By curvy do you mean plus size?  Lane Bryant has some nice lingerie that start at a size 14.

    How about incorporate a massage and light candles. Or steak and a BJ.

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  • imageMortomo:

    By curvy do you mean plus size?  Lane Bryant has some nice lingerie that start at a size 14.

    How about incorporate a massage and light candles. Or steak and a BJ.

    Hahaha! That's totally my husband's idea of the perfect date-night.

  • Teddies and babydoll lingerie styles are very flattering on all body types. Or if you want to be really daring wearing nothing but a sexy pair of high heels when he walks in the door I guarantee he will be jumping on your bones right then and there! I am sure your husband will find you looking beautiful in whatever you are wearing.

  • Oddly enough DH thinks I'm sexiest in this Red Sox tshirt.  He also liked it when I put on one of his dress shirts and one of his ties and a cute pair of panties.  Sometimes it's not about what you wear but how you wear it!  Steaks and Bjs work too!
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  • @Mortomo

    I have no idea why I haven't thought of this combination :)

     

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    @Mortomo

    I have no idea why I haven't thought of this combination :)


     

    You obviously haven't heard of National Steak and Blow Job day. I believe it was started as one mans pay back for Valentines day. LOL

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  • imageMortomo:

    By curvy do you mean plus size?  Lane Bryant has some nice lingerie that start at a size 14.

    How about incorporate a massage and light candles. Or steak and a BJ.

    one well done, the other rare...don't get them confused ;)

     

     

    Honestly, my husband thinks I'm sexiest in his over-sized college hoodie and a cute pair of panties...which is pretty flattering on any body type :)

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  • If you've got curves, nothing enhances them better than a corset.  Trim your waist with tits for days!  Pair it with fishnets and heels.

    No one else has mentioned this yet: if he's been away at work for this trip, I will bet you dollars to doughnuts that he would LOVE to have the house clean and sparkling when he comes home.  I know that when I have long crappy days at work and I come home to my man having tidied the place up, I feel 1000% better (and usually ready to jump his bones too). 

  • No, I'm not plus-sized but I am pretty curvy- he says he loves it but sometimes I'm a little self-conscious. haha Steaks and a bj sounds right up his ally! I got a really sexy black and silver lacy bra and panty set, and i think that would look great with one of his dress shirts or his UT Longhorns jersey!  Candles are a must.. but I was wondering about the music. I've always thought it would be kind of cheesy, so any ideas for some sexy music to get us in the mood? Thanks for the ideas ladies, this has helped a lot!
  • As a man this would be my suggestion,

    Step 1: Go all 50's housewife for dinner. Make him something that he likes, steak and potatoes, whatever, and wear the apron. Have it ready or close to ready when he gets home. I know it's a stereotype but hey we still love it.

    Step 2: After dinner put on something of his. A collared shirt and tie, an old sports jersey, a t shirt, whatever you like as long as its not too complicated to remove. No candles and soft music, that tells him to be calm and slow. You want passionate, go with something more uptempo.

    Step 3: Enjoy!

    PS: He now owes you one for the next time you go away.

  • Thanks ender1568! That sounds awesome :)
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