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no July baby for us :-(
Hey ladies,
So I've been MIA lately. I told you all last week that we were expecting. Well, last weds. I started bleeding. I didn't have cramps or anything, so when I called the doctor, they insisted it was probably normal bleeding. After 2 1/2 days of bleeding, the doctor FINALLY had me come in. Had a mis-carriage. :-(
My goal at work today is to try and not cry (anymore). I ended up telling my two bosses last week that we were preggers b/c I needed them to know why i was leaving work. So of course I came in today and they asked how i was and I lost it.
My advice for all of you that might be ttc in the future, pay attention to your own body- no one knows it better, not even the doctor!
Re: no July baby for us :-(
I'm so sorry to hear that.
Did they know why? Is there anything you can do to prevent it next time?
Stupid doctors...
TTC since 2010
Me: 36, slightly elevated FSH. Everything else (hysterescopy, HSG, b/w) normal.
DH:30, with super sperm? >200mil post wash
BFP #1 - May 2011 - m/c @ 8weeks
IUI #1 - July 26 2012 - Femara = BFN
Suprise BFP Jan 15 2013. Hope this one sticks!
I'm so sorry
Are you guys going to continue to try or take a break?
They have no clue why it happened. I mean, there isn't anything "wrong" it's just one of those things that just happened. Guess it wasn't time. Yeah, I think we'll try again right away- and the doctor said that should be just fine.
I guess a higher power had different plans for us.
Thanks all!
This is absolutely true 100%. I'm sorry for your loss, and can't imagine how you'r feeling.. there is a reason behind everything, and I'm thankful you're healthy and you & DH can begin trying for a family right away again!
09.25.10
IUI #1 10/12/11 (Bravelle + HCG + Prometrium & acupuncture) = 10/26 BFP! Beta #1=250, Beta #2= 615. 1st u/s 11/8.
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I'm so sorry to hear about your pain. I agree that there must be something out there that had different plans for you, whatever they may be.
Hugs.
TTC since 08/2010
Anovulatory since at least 12/2010 (probably longer, unDx)
Dx PCOS 3/2012
SA 5/25/12--normal
June 2012--50mg clomid+TI--BFN
July 2012--50mg clomid+Ovidrel+TI--BFN, lining at 5mm
August 2012--5mg femara+Ovidrel+TI
I'm so sorry hearing about this. You will be in my thoughts.
Definately take time to mourn, I had a m/c at 8 weeks, 3 years ago, which was aslo my first, and it's still hard, it gets easier to deal with, but some stuff still hits me and makes me cry. I found a support group in my area for pregnancy and infant loss that helped a lot, and also the national SHARE for pregnancy and infant loss helped me a lot also, maybe check into it.
I also had no answers from the doctors as to why it happened, everything came back normal, like you said, it wasn't my time.
I am so, so sorry to hear this.
And I definitely think your advice is great, that you know your body best. I read this book recently, and thought it had great advice, decoding what your body is doing. Making Babies: A Proven 3-Month Program for Maximum Fertility
Best of luck to you!
awww...Jessie, you didn't even tell us. Sorry babes.
TTC since 2010
Me: 36, slightly elevated FSH. Everything else (hysterescopy, HSG, b/w) normal.
DH:30, with super sperm? >200mil post wash
BFP #1 - May 2011 - m/c @ 8weeks
IUI #1 - July 26 2012 - Femara = BFN
Suprise BFP Jan 15 2013. Hope this one sticks!