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Crappy Sex Life
H and I used to have an AMAZING sex life early in our relationship (the first two years actually). Usually twice a day, everyday.
Then, we were forced to do the long distance thing for almost three years and were only able to see each other on the weekends - while we were both living with our parents. Needless to say, our sex life took a major hit.
When we finally moved in together, we figured the frequency would pick up a little, but no such luck.
Now (almost two years later), we work opposite shifts, and as you can imagine this makes it even harder! When we finally do have sex (sometimes only a few times a MONTH) it seems forced - like we're only doing it because we know it'll be awhile before we get the chance to do it again. While we're having sex it's great, but we both feel like it's not as good as it COULD be because we forced it.
Not to mention, I'm on the pill so I have zero sex drive to begin with.
Bah Humbug. Any advice?
Re: Crappy Sex Life
I just re-read that and laughed because it comes across so dramatic with all the CAPS and exclamation points. haha, sorry, I'm just so worked up about it now.
I think this is my problem as well. I have an appt with my gyno to talk about a new brand.
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Enjoy!
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