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my neighbors fence... (long vent)

...is old and falling apart and everyday this week I've gone outside to 3 huge shepards in my back yard.  Luckily they get along with my 2 pekingese, but my neighbor said they may bite.  Great.  FIrst they busted a huge hole in the fence.  I found the dogs in my yard and went next door and politely told her and she apologized profusely, came and got them, and screwed drywall to cover the hole which is UG-LY.  Now their dogs are digging under the fence to come play with mine.  We are at 3 holes now.  They seem nice to me, but I don't want a bite so I'm not about to try them.  H said I should have "taken one for the team" and let it bite me so we could sue.  He's kidding.  I hope.  But I want the fence replaced without having to be rude.  We replaced the fence on the other side of our house because that neighbors dog broke a hole through it also, but that fence was ours.  This neighbors fence is hers so she should be the one to replace it.  It is going to cost at least 500.  We would even do the work if they would just pay the cost of supplies.  I guess it is big girl shorts time.  Ugh.  I hate asking someone to dish out that much money before the holidays. 

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Re: my neighbors fence... (long vent)

  • They should appreciate a $500 request when their lack of action could result in thousands of dollars of veterinary bills.
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  • This is a very good point.  I really don't think they'll bite, and that she just said that to be precautionary, which I can appreciate.  But who's to say they won't start protecting my yard like it is their own?
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  • Do you have an HOA? Maybe they can request she fix the fence.

    I'm w/ Nicole.

    They should be keeping their dogs in their yard. I'm paranoid that Wyatt will some how escape our yard. Heaven knows we don't need a big bad pit bull running around the neighbor hood.

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  • No HOA, but there is a civic association that my across the street neighbor is treasurer of.  I don't want to file a "complaint" though unless I at least talk to her about it first.  Today I saw her walking one on a leash for the first time in the 2 1/2 years I've lived here so maybe she is making even a slight effort to decrease the poor dogs boredom.  They spend entirely too much time alone out there.  I'm torn between not liking her for her neglect of her dogs and fence, and feeling for her because she is an older widow who lost her husband about 5 years ago.  Now she has a live in handyman which is odd, but whateves.  I just want the fence replaced without hard feelings. 
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    No HOA, but there is a civic association that my across the street neighbor is treasurer of.  I don't want to file a "complaint" though unless I at least talk to her about it first.  Today I saw her walking one on a leash for the first time in the 2 1/2 years I've lived here so maybe she is making even a slight effort to decrease the poor dogs boredom.  They spend entirely too much time alone out there.  I'm torn between not liking her for her neglect of her dogs and fence, and feeling for her because she is an older widow who lost her husband about 5 years ago.  Now she has a live in handyman which is odd, but whateves.  I just want the fence replaced without hard feelings. 

    How handy can he be if he hasn't fixed the fence.

    I wouldn't want to talk to the neighbor either (remember how I didn't when that wack job stuck her hand in our fence).. But, it is for her own good. It will be a serious problem if her dogs get out and attack you, your dog, or someone else.

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  • with a live in handyman, that *** should get fixed. 

    Option 1 yeah, i'd gp over there and nicely tell her that you can not have her dogs in your yard and you need her to fix the fence so they dogs can not get through. 

    Option 2 you get a fence to cover the eye sore on your side of the yard.  

    Option 3 you call animal control when they get out. each and every time.

  • Thank you for the confidence builders.  I think I will start with something like this...  "When you are able to get the new fence to replace the old one, Brian and I will be happy to help you install it.  We did the other side of our yard since that one belonged to us and it was between $400 and $500.  This is much better than what it could end up costing if the dogs keep getting out".

    or what do you think of this idea... I get a written estimate from our handyman from work who is awesome, and give it to her very nicely saying this would be a great deal for her. 

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  • I would talk to her first.  If someone came up to me and started talking prices and quotes without me asking first I would be offended.  Go ahead and offer to help her but hold back on sharing how much it costs unless she asks.
  • Good point diamondgrrl, that is what I was wondering.  I guess I just feel awkward asking her to replace the fence without trying to be more helpful.  Offering our physical help should be a good enough way to go about it though.  It should be obvious that it needs to be replaced.  The houses were built in 68 and the fence has got to be that old.  It is just eroding away to nothing.  Boo on the whole thing.  I wish I just had the extra money to go ahead and do it myself. 
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