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WWYD?

I am 34 weeks pregnant and I have not been in the mood or feeling very good to have sex with my DH. We have a really good relationship and are usually communicate very well. My DH likes sex a lot but is not an addict or anything.Well he is going out with a buddy of his tonight and they are going to a place called Twin Peeks which is just like Hooters kinda. Before he got in the shower he was shower his private area...I peeked :). I went into pee and he had the door locked and said that he was using the bathroom...(number 2). Obviously lying.....what would you think or what would you do if you were in my shoes? Just ask him up front or what?

 

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Re: WWYD?

  • i would think that he is being respectful of the fact that his wife is very, very pregnant and not in the mood. i would think it's better that he do this before he goes out, so as not to face the situation of lack of sex, desire and hooters like women all around him. i am not saying that anything would happen (it sounds like def nothing would!) but i would imagine it would be an annoying feeling to have while out if he didn't take care of himself prior.

    if it were me, i would playfully mention it to DH and let him know that next time, even if i'm not in the mood that i would be more than willing to lend a hand and help out!

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    i would think that he is being respectful of the fact that his wife is very, very pregnant and not in the mood. i would think it's better that he do this before he goes out, so as not to face the situation of lack of sex, desire and hooters like women all around him. i am not saying that anything would happen (it sounds like def nothing would!) but i would imagine it would be an annoying feeling to have while out if he didn't take care of himself prior.

    if it were me, i would playfully mention it to DH and let him know that next time, even if i'm not in the mood that i would be more than willing to lend a hand and help out!

     

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  • imagecarcrashheart:

    i would think that he is being respectful of the fact that his wife is very, very pregnant and not in the mood. i would think it's better that he do this before he goes out, so as not to face the situation of lack of sex, desire and hooters like women all around him. i am not saying that anything would happen (it sounds like def nothing would!) but i would imagine it would be an annoying feeling to have while out if he didn't take care of himself prior.

    if it were me, i would playfully mention it to DH and let him know that next time, even if i'm not in the mood that i would be more than willing to lend a hand and help out!

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