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Our tech team has launched updates to The Nest today. As a result of these updates, members of the Nest Community will need to change their password in order to continue participating in the community. In addition, The Nest community member's avatars will be replaced with generic default avatars. If you wish to revert to your original avatar, you will need to re-upload it via The Nest.
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Note: This only affects The Nest's community members and will not affect members on The Bump or The Knot.
Our tech team has launched updates to The Nest today. As a result of these updates, members of the Nest Community will need to change their password in order to continue participating in the community. In addition, The Nest community member's avatars will be replaced with generic default avatars. If you wish to revert to your original avatar, you will need to re-upload it via The Nest.
If you have questions about this, please email help@theknot.com.
Thank you.
Note: This only affects The Nest's community members and will not affect members on The Bump or The Knot.
pregnant and cant put up with mil please help advice needed
i am just in my second trimester and my mother in law and the rest of my husbands family are getting on my last nerve. i am attending a cosmetology school and my inlaws have been helping out by watching our two boys while im at school and i have recently found out that my mil has been talking trash on my family which i dont approve of especially in front of my kids and because i could not get ahold of her over the phone to confront her about it because she never gets off of facebook i sent her a private message on facebook telling her that i did not appreciate it (she had also contacted my mother and verbaly attacked her for no reason) and so i told her i could not believe that she did that and that it was not acceptable and it would not be tolerated and if she chose to continue to act like that she would no longer be allowed around my children and i would find elsewhere for my children and then i get everyone of her other children besides my husband messaging me on facebook calling me and my mother "phsycotic bitches" and more (a lot worse than their previous statement) and how she gave them her log in so they could read how i told her my children wouldnt be allowed around that and then get told that i am a horrible mother....but how am i a horrible mother when i dont want my children around filth like they were speaking?......i then told my dh about EVERYTHING and that our children were not allowed around them anymore and we would no longer be anywhere near them and he agreed.......am i a bad wife for this?(my husband told me that he would "no longer have anything else to do with them)and this decision was made by him.......and then about an hour after this my mil sends my mother and i both txts saying "SHE WILL B IN THE DELIVERY ROOM WHEN I HAVE THIS BABY AND THERE AIN'T *** WE CAN DO ABOUT IT" there in no way under any circumstances will she be in there especially not to r
Re: pregnant and cant put up with mil please help advice needed
Restraining order? Yes please.
But seriously...this is harassment. If I were you, I would make sure you have documentation of all of these instances...just in case you need them.
i kind of figured it was
sorry new phone havent figured it all out yet and our internet is down (bad weather)
Make a pregnancy ticker
Ignore her. Your DH is supporting you in this, there is no reason to further engage her.
You know full well she can't just waltz into the delivery room. First of all, how will she know when you are even in labor? Second, if you tell the nurses at the hospital that under no circumstances is she to be let in to see you, they won't allow her to come in.