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I may have mentioned how much I dislike my sister's BF who lives 2 hours away before. Well, her birthday was on Wed. She talked all day about how she thought he was going to surprise her by showing up and asked if I had talked to him. One of his roommates wrote on her FB wall to have a great day with him. (The week before he was out here and told us all he would see us on her birthday, then told Beth he wouldnt be coming bc he opted to work to get an extra PTO day instead).
She seriously thought he was going to surprise her, and at the end of the night she realized he wasnt coming I could tell she was hurt. He never came, and didnt even send balloons or flowers. Nothing. He did the same thing last year, ended up not coming last minute and did nothing for her birthday.
This guy is such a jerk (or as my Dad called him an a@@hole) for making her think all day he was going to surprise her and then not come at all. UGH. I dont knwo what it will take for my sister to wake up and realize he doesnt care about her and definitely doesn't treat her like she should be treated.
It also pisses me off when his friends post on her FB "The future Mrs. lastname". I dont think so. Im so pissed off, I dont know what to do.
Sorry this was so long, I needed to get that out!
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"Life isn't about waiting for the storm to pass. It's about learning to dance in the rain."
I agree with Caroline and Carrie. It is hard seeing someone make a big mistake because you can see it, but they can't see it.
As much as it hurts you to see, you are probably going to have to let her get hurt and hopefully she will learn.
My advice is just to be there for her and as much as you can.