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disgruntled

OK so this isn't a hill I want to die on, but more of a vent than anything. We were supposed to head OOS today for my family's Christmas party but because of snow coming this weekend we decided not to go. I'm already bummed abuot missing my cousins but that's another story.

Anyhow - I bought a small gift for my cousin's baby to take with us when we went. I thought about returning it once we knew we weren't going to make the trip, but, I decided to go ahead and send it to her anyhow. According to USPS tracking, it should have arrived on Wednesday morning (and she's home all day; doesn't work). I texted my cousin to let her know we weren't coming, and that I sent a package for the baby and she should be receiving it any time now.  Well, not only did she never text me back, but I also never received a call/text/e mail/fb message to let me know that she got it or to say thank you.  I just get frustrated with this, because our family normally isnt' the type not to acknowledge a gift.  Not only did my mom make sure my sister and I acknowledged gifts - she made us send thank you cards for EVERYTHING no matter if it was for Xmas, birthday or whatever. A phone call or e mail wasn't enough in her book.  Like I said it's not a hill I want to die on, but I'm just a little perturbed about it and probably won't plan to send any more gifts after this unless we actually make the trip.

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  •  Go ahead and vent.  If she DID receive it, and not acknowledge it, that's just bad manners.  You have a right to be miffed.
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     Go ahead and vent.  If she DID receive it, and not acknowledge it, that's just bad manners.  You have a right to be miffed.

    Ditto! What happened to being polite?

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  • I would be annoyed as well.  I would really just want to make sure that she actually got it, so I could stop worrying that someone could have grabbed it from her porch or something (she could have been in the shower, or running errands).  I have also gotten delivery notices when they tired to deliver but required a sig and no one was home, and the online tracking will still show it as delivered, so I worry about that as well.
  • It was done through the post office so they should have just stuck it in their mail box. My mom told me to call her again or send a message on FB just to see if she got it. That?s my biggest concern. Saying thank you is just a relfection on her.
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  • I would definitely drop her a note to make sure she got it since so many packages are stolen this time of year. I actually had a package stolen from our lobby this week; it was just a $20 gift I bought DH but I was annoyed. If it was too big to fit in their mailbox the mailman could have left it anywhere. 

    If she did get it, this will be her reminder to send a thank you, and if not you can take it up with USPS.

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  • Oh, I would definitely be peeved!  Maybe give her a call and ask if she received it, sometimes people don't take texts seriously and it's better to bite the bullet and just call them.  You can explain that you just wanted to make sure that the received it. . . 

    My mom made us do the same thing with thank-you cards, and I think my DH's family is a bit overwhelmed with all of the cards that I send now :P 

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  • The only thank you cards I've done since graduation were for the wedding. Other than that people get a phone call. I am very thank you carded out! :)
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  • I'd be annoyed....my mom was big on thank you notes when we were kids and I try to be really good about it as an adult too!
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