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Really uncomfortable...Not sure why
So, last night DH and I were up really late and he was really in the mood and we had some great sex before going to bed. But, about an hour later, when I was pretty much half asleep, he started doing me again which never happens. We have had sex twice in one day maybe once throughout our whole relationship, let alone within an hour or so. And he was going for a really long time from behind and it really started to hurt and I had to ask him to stop.
For some reason I feel really weird today because I don't understand what motivated him to do that since he never does. And it was really painful for a bit (the second time) and he seemed really deflated when I said I had to stop. (Which shouldn't really bother me too much because we did it already and he has turned me down before of course.) I don't really know why I feel so strange about it.
DH works a lot more than I do and is tired a lot more, so I am up for sex a lot more than he is and I finally got a chance to have a nice long session and I feel like I didn't get to enjoy it as much as I wanted. I really want to explain it to him when he gets home later, it's just that I don't know if he'll understand.
Re: Really uncomfortable...Not sure why
to men getting u to orgasm is very important so he sensed he didn't satisfy u the first time so he was trying again but ur arousal was gone and so was the natural lubrication then u bruised his ego so thats why he pouted.
U see if a man doesn't get u to orgasm u haven't satisfied him too.Its an ego thing for him.
I think I was feeling more worried that I disappointed him by having to stop when he wasn't ready. It felt really good to have another go at it in the same night!
BTW, I just came back from having lunch with him on his break and talked to him about it. He was in a really good mood because of last night and kept telling me how great it was. When I asked him if he was disappointed the second time around he said he wasn't because he wasn't expecting to finish anyway. So, thankfully, worries for nothing! It was also like four in the morning so there wasn't a lot of communication at the time LOL!
You still here, jerkwad?
Gee, you sure have a thing for egos. Wonder what that is?