October 2009 Weddings
Dear Community,

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Tear Jerker...

Re: Tear Jerker...

  • I stumbled upon this not too long ago, too...It moved me to tears.
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  • Well thank you kristina for making me cry like a big baby lol.
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  • Wow. Just.... wow.
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  • Holy crap.  Thanks Kristina!  I just cried all the way through that! Crying
  • Seriously, I read this at work and was so moved.  Good thing no one else was in my office...big ball of tears...
  • Ok, you guys are going to think I'm nuts here, but I had a terribly hard time reading most of that.  I guess because I have worked with kids with signigicant disabilites for over 10 years, but it broke my heart to read a mother's response to having a child with a disability was feeling like her world had shattered. Sure, it'll be different, but far from the end of the world. So many people are unaware of the stereotypes that they hold about people with disabilities, and unfortunately, this woman had to face hers head on at the worst possible time - unfortuantely, not an unusual thing.

    Frankly, some of the most perfect, wonderful, amazing souls I have ever had the good fortune to be around have been those with Down's syndrome.  I'm glad that toward the end, she seemed to have realized that this child may very well be the single greatest thing that will ever touch her life. I hope she and her family continue to embrace each other and learn about all the fantastic things that their little girl will be able to accomplish!

     ok..sorry...that was long!  I should hop off of my special education soap box now! 

  • Feel free to hop on your special education box anytime!  I completely understand what you are saying and agree with you.  In response to the mom feeling the way she did, I appreciated her honesty....that is not an easy thing to admit to people.  I also think by her sharing her experience, she shed some light on those stereotypes and in the end she loved her child regardless (which I hope any mother would).  I think her story def. helped others. 

  • I think it's like anything else.  You have a pretty princess idea of what having a baby is going to be...and suddenly it's different and a lot scary.  You don't love them any less, but you are smart enough to know what it is going to mean.  Everyone has challenges with their kids, even if they look perfect...but you get those a little at a time over the years, so you have a chance to work through it.  This is everything, all at once, in an instant.  I don't have a problem that she took a day to work through the reality.
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  • imageMuffin'sMom:
    I think it's like anything else.  You have a pretty princess idea of what having a baby is going to be...and suddenly it's different and a lot scary.  You don't love them any less, but you are smart enough to know what it is going to mean.  Everyone has challenges with their kids, even if they look perfect...but you get those a little at a time over the years, so you have a chance to work through it.  This is everything, all at once, in an instant.  I don't have a problem that she took a day to work through the reality.

    Amen to this!  

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