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my ILs and babysitting

God love them. But they don't want a stranger watching B2.

I was like I don't expect you to watch him 5 days a week. Plus, my MIL works a few days a week and they like to go away and take off on Friday and head to the casinos.

I said it was in the best interest of everyone if I had a babysitter.

Then MIL says, "well, Ok. I will watch him on my days off"

I said that wasnt going to work b/c she always has a different schedule and I don't want to have a different schedule every week for the sitter.

**sigh** So Maybe I will get an inhome sitter for Fridays and then when B is potty trained and old enough I will take him to a "school/daycare" 3 days a week.

Re: my ILs and babysitting

  • Ron's grandma was the worst w/ me working. She told me the sitter had Addison locked up by herself. Really? She seriously would drive me nuts. If she had a rash, it was the sitters fault, she was sick, it was the sitters fault and she went on & on!
  • My MIL still has all sorts of horror stories for me about babysitters...I"ve learned to just let them go in one ear and out the other.  If she lived in town, I would not let her watch R on a regular (daily) basis - she's getting too old and can't move around as quickly to keep up with a little 2 year old. 

    When B is old enough, keep in mind that it's difficult to find a place that will allow for a rotating schedule - my neighbors just went through this for their 3 year old.  Dad's schedule is 2-on; 2-off and every other Friday - so one week was 2 days the next was 3 and the days weren't the same week to week.  Plus, Daycare is really expensive, even part time.  (this is all my opinion...take it if you'd like).  

    I'll send you a FB message with an email or a phone number for my co-workers niece, like you had asked today.  I know a few girls that went to highschool with her as well.  

    Good luck in your quest!

  • I looked at Toledo Day Nursery b/c I have a friend who works there and it would cost $127/week for PT.

    I finally just told every one that I am going to send B2 to a sitter 2 days a week. And it will be the same two days every week.

    They will just have to deal with it.

    I have 4 numbers from girls on the nest or who used to be on the nest, so hopefully one of them has an opening.

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