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Just out of curiosity, I was wondering what everyone had for benefits as far as paid maternity leave. I work for the government and we get nothing, not even six weeks short term disability (there's no such thing for federal employees). I can take my 12 weeks of unpaid FMLA and can use any PTO I've accrued during that time, but I'm wondering how common paid maternity leave is elsewhere.
Claire Elisabeth born at 27w1d on 2/20/11

Re: Maternity Leave
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Claire Elizabeth 12/31/2011
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we get 8 weeks, you have to use any sick time you have and then can get extended sick leave benefits which I believe is 2/3rds of your salary.
However, I'm salaried so I wonder if I would just get my full pay anyway? I never looked into it since I have no pregnancy plans. I do know that I will get full pay for the weeks I'm out for my surgery, probably 2-3 weeks.
We're pretty lucky. We get 100% paid leave for 6-8 weeks, depending on the birth. Then we can use our vacation, and I'll probably take 4 weeks on top of that. They're generous with our vacation, and we have flex time so we don't have to use it for doctor visits, sick kids, etc. My department is extremely flexible with time, which is one of the reasons I moved into this job. It's great for parents.
New dads get a week paid, and adoptive parents get 4.
The nerve!
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Me too. Although a c section got me 8. I will be back to work after Christmas. I wish I could have had her in another country.
For less then ten cents a day, you can feed a hungry child.
I bet her FUPA's name is Shane, like the gunslinger/drifter of literature.--HappyTummy
I'm in the same boat as you skyhiney.
Something that made me extra sad was- I had Dagger a week before school gets out (I took the week before that too), so I got two weeks of the 12 weeks of FMLA. For some reason, I assumed since I don't work over the summer, I would get the other 10 weeks as an option in the fall, but that is not the case.
We get 12 weeks FMLA, and I have short-term disability insurance that paid partial salary for 6 weeks. I had to use all my sick time before the disability would kick in though, and I didn't have enough vacation to cover the remaining six weeks, so we just saved as much as we could in the months leading up to maternity leave.
And now I'm required to take two weeks off because we're totally closing down, and I've only been back a month and a half so I only had a few vacation days, and my choices are to borrow against vacation time (and have no vacation next year) or go without pay. =/
That's bullcrap. you should get it paid if they are closing down.
That would be awesome, but they're closing down to save money.
I bet her FUPA's name is Shane, like the gunslinger/drifter of literature.--HappyTummy
Bob and Noisy, that sucks. We are closed for a week and a half-ish, but it is paid and we don't have to use PTO. I have a pretty sweet deal here.
oh, well that would be counterproductive then.
Ugh I also think it's so shitty to force you to take PTO or unpaid leave when they close down for the holidays.
At least I do have the option of working comp time, which I am doing now. I'm exhausted but I'm trying to get in as many hours as I can now to use later. If I didn't even have the option for comp time, I don't know what I'd do. Having babies and working sucks, yo.
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When I started working here we had to pick between paying something ridiculously stupid like $4/month for the plan that kicked in after 7 days, vs. $3 for the plan that kicks in after 14 days and $2 for the plan that kicks in after 30 days. It's a difference of $24 a year. I don't know why anyone would bother with the 30 day plan.
Could co-workers donate vacation time to you like Kristen's co-workers did? My H had some use-it-or-lose it leave that he wasn't sure he'd be able to use (tons of comp time because he is so busy at work) and he donated it to someone he didn't even know because they had made a request for donated leave.
11/11/11 = 5 years. Woah!
11/11/11 = 5 years. Woah!
I get 12 weeks FMLA unpaid. Normally they use your sick/personal days until your run out so that you get some pay, but unless you've accrued 12 weeks, you don't get paid for the entire leave. I also have STD for 60% of my pay. They use your sick/personal days until STD kicks in. I have the option of telling them to use my accrued sick and personal days instead of STD so that I get full pay, which I'll do with this kid. I have enough paid days to be able to take close to 8 weeks, but unless the spawn comes early, I won't need it. I will only need to take between 5 and 6 weeks of leave and I'll still have some left over.
Winged, we have the option of saving some of our time for the fall if you have a spring/summer kid.
Caroline 5/15/11
Hmm, I've always assumed the same thing. Eeeeenteresting. I'm glad to get this information well in advance, because I was thinking (when the time finally arrives, which will not be within this next year) having a summer baby would be the best so I could build in some extra time off. I suppose it could still work in my favor, but I'll have to plan it out a bit more.
Also, I don't think I opted for short-term disability when I signed up for my benefits. I've never had that as part of my benefits package, but I'm more and more thinking maybe I should for some added protection just in case