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I have a "family matter"
Im guessen I should tell you a little bout myself. Me and my husband have been married for almost 4 years now. We live in a little country town, close to much of our family. We are really close and supportof eachother. for the most part. Ya no how it is we each has our own way of doin things and sometimes we but heads. But we love eachother.
My husband is on unemployment and I'm worken part time in a factory. We aint poor but we have a hard time maken ends meet.
Now we got married late in life and we decided we wasnt going to have any kids. My husband would be sixty when the kid was up and grown. Maybe that aint so old now days but he dont want nobody mixen him up with the little ones granpa. Sides he was married before when he was outa the army and Im not sure waht happened but they tried to have themselves a whole litter and werent able to. So he gots the notion that he dont want no kids now.
Im sure your seeing where my problem lies now. I found myself in the "family way" last month and Im not sure what I should do about it. I want to defend myself now to say that i am so regular about taking my pills that you could set a clock by me. But sayen that done dont change anything Im still preggers and I anit sure how.
Im all tore up about it too. I agreed with my husband that I wouldnt have children and I thought we could be happy like that. When we got into the money we were going to get us some horses and some land and stop liven in my Daddys trailer. And I wanna be clear on that one too. We anit living with my Daddy. He has an old farm with a farm house where he lives and an old double wide on the corner. The insurance folks tole him that they wasnt going to insure it anymore cause there wasnt anybody liven there. Well me and my husband were already in troubule so we decided to help him out by liven there. We pay for the oil and such and he is able to keep insuren it more.
But I agreed no babies. Im not suposed to want this one but I kinda do. More then that I think maybe this baby was ment to be, ya no?
And for all of you folks who slogged with me threw and to the end Im greatful. I need to know how do I decided if I want to keep this baby and if I do how do I tell my husband?
Re: I have a "family matter"
Sara, Friend?
glove slap. I don't take crap.
it scares me to no end that people actually write like this....are you kidding me?!?!?!!?
To me it sounds like the OP is doing some sort of writing exercise in channeling some regional voice... or something.
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hahahahahahah at least spell 'ignorant' correctly if you're going to use it.
Besides the fact that no one writes like that, here's where you went wrong:
1) Paragraphs. You actually included them. There seems to be some sophistication of thought that doesn't match with your supposed lack of "book smarts."
2) Your post reads just like any other common post here (as far as side comments, conversational sentence fragments, etc.) Just with a ridiculous "accent."
3) You're not consistent with your misspellings and "poor grammar."
So what are you? Aspiring writer? Theater student?
If this isn't MUD, you HAVE to tell your husband. You can't keep pregnancy a secret from him forever. Obviously it happened somehow (which sometimes the pill will fail ya) so there's no turning back now.....adoption is an option. Don't raise a kid you and/or your husband don't want. Additionally because you can't afford to support yourselves let alone a 3rd mouth to feed. Children deserve to grow up in a loving, stable and un-resentful environment.
Is un-resentful a word??
Well, you started off with a handicap (handycapp, in your regional dialect) when yer pappy got yer sissy in a fambly way with y'all. Jes remember, don't let your brother-uncle diddle you into a fambly way. You can stop the cycle!
Ok,
I am from Indiana as well...and NO ONE talks like this!
Omg maybe a little southern twang in some parts
...But nothing this bad!
Dude this! This isn't some "regional dialect". We don't talk this way. lol