Sex & Romance
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Spice in your sex life...
How do you keep your sex life fun and interesting. My husband and I have an eleven month old and although we still have sex several times a week we both want more passion and intensity like it was pre-baby. Any advice?
Re: Spice in your sex life...
Get a babysitter or leave the little one with the in-laws for a weekend. Get out of the house and get back to being adults instead of parents. Hotel room, sexy clothes, a night out on the town -- it should work wonders.
Or, porn. Share fantasies. Buy a new sex toy. Talk filthy dirty to each other. Have one of you tie the other one up. Role-play where one of you picks up the other one in a bar for a "one-night stand." The ideas are endless.
Honestly, unless you're into some serious kink and have done nearly everything in the book, there are tons of ways to add "spice" to your sex life.
DH and I have recently been talking about how to spice things up (3 1/2 years of the same routine with little variety) and I think this is a great idea.
Thanks!
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