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What to do?

I recieved a gift this morning from someone I used to me really good friends with. I have not talked to her in probably 2 months because of other issues. I sent her a message FB telling her thank you and that it was sweet of her to get me a gift. Now I feel like an ungreatful biotch for not talking to her and not getting her anything. I am so soft hearted when it comes to stuff like this and I don't know what to do. Is my thank you good enough since she went out of her own way after that amount of time not talking?
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Re: What to do?

  • Take my approach--bake her something and call it good!
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  • I agree with BoyMom, a thank you and some baked goodies should suffice Smile
  • I wouldn't feel the need to get her a gift too. It sounds like this gift might be an attempt to reestablish contact with you. I would suggest calling her to thank her, unless you don't want to get dragged back into a friendship with her.
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  • imageSunnyDaze31:
    I wouldn't feel the need to get her a gift too. It sounds like this gift might be an attempt to reestablish contact with you. I would suggest calling her to thank her, unless you don't want to get dragged back into a friendship with her.

    I am about 99% sure this is what she is trying to do. I don't mind being an aquantince (sp) with her but I doubt our friendship will ever be the same. We have alot of mutual friends and one of them is getting married this June and were both in the wedding so I will have to talk to her when it comes to planning stuff but other than that I don't want much else.

    I did send her a thank you on FB so I hope that is good enough.  

     

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  • imagetbvenable:

    imageSunnyDaze31:
    I wouldn't feel the need to get her a gift too. It sounds like this gift might be an attempt to reestablish contact with you. I would suggest calling her to thank her, unless you don't want to get dragged back into a friendship with her.

    I am about 99% sure this is what she is trying to do. I don't mind being an aquantince (sp) with her but I doubt our friendship will ever be the same. We have alot of mutual friends and one of them is getting married this June and were both in the wedding so I will have to talk to her when it comes to planning stuff but other than that I don't want much else.

    I did send her a thank you on FB so I hope that is good enough.  

     

    Then I think a sincere thank you is fine. She probably wasn't wanting/looking for anything in return, just wanted to reach out to you.
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