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Out of the closet!

*also posted on bump* 

know this might not be the best time for this post but it's the best time for me. :)

I have been officially diagnosed with unexplained infertility. We are currently taking a break in TTC, no doctor appointments, no monitoring, no accupunture, no temping no nothing. Just going to live life like we don't have any baby making issues.

It's been pretty tough but it looks like it's going to be a longer road than I thought which sucks. I'm still working on coming to terms with my dx and each time I realize a new part of this tears my soul apart.

If we don't get a BFP during our break then I'll be moving to IUI in Feb followed by IVF if those don't work. I'm going to be starting to look into adoption options and that giant world. Hopefully something will work for us. Until then I'm taking it minute by minute, letting my feelings be what they are and trying to see the little things in life that sometimes are taken foregranted.

I don't want anyone to feel sad or sorry for me. It's not why I posted. I needed to get it out there. IF is scary and isolating and I don't want to feel scared and the need to hide. So here I am in all of my infertility glory! Merry Christmas! :o)

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Re: Out of the closet!

  • I'm glad you're not hiding! Thanks for sharing and I hope that you find some peace during your time off and I wish you guys all the best along your journey.
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  • I hope for the best for you and that this break brings you a little miracle.  I will be thinking of you.
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  • Wishing you happy thoughts and am thinking of you.  Getting it out there might help you deal with some of the emotions better.  I'm sure there are plenty of ladies around here and on other boards that have been through similar situations and can be helpful to you.
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  • Good luck to you. Unfortunatly I can relate. We've been TTC for almost 4 years with 1 miscarriage after IVF. If you ever need to talk to anyone about things or have questions let me know.
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  • Thanks for all of the kind words and thoughts! :o)
    Took 2 years & 8 months to make our baby! Lilypie First Birthday tickers
  • Enjoy your break. Eat a couple strawberries, the zinc is supposed to enhance something to do with the horizontal mambo. ;)
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