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Question about men and positions

Why do most men seem to prefer doggy style??? This baffles me. Most men I have ever dated prefer it almost need it from behind!

Re: Question about men and positions

  • I would'nt say I prefer it to all other positions, but I like it because, like most men, I greatly enjoy the visual aspect of my partners spread buttocks so lusciously displayed.   I also like how they shake and ripple as I thrust.  It does feel very different to the face to face postures, especially if you have a curved shaft,...As she gets more excited I enjoy the feeling of her passage trying to pull my curve straight!   It's not usually a position I use for tenderness, more for plain physicality.........

     

    .............Never known a woman who did not like tho',.....and they ALL ask for it at some time!

  • why does this baffle you? Really what's not to like? It's easy to do for both parties, guy gets a good view and gets to be in control a bit, and he gets to go deeper than some other positions. If that's the ONLY thing your guy likes that's the only thing that would baffle me.
  • Is this an AE, or did you really join the nest to ask this?
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  • imageLil'BlackDress:
    why does this baffle you? Really what's not to like? It's easy to do for both parties, guy gets a good view and gets to be in control a bit, and he gets to go deeper than some other positions. If that's the ONLY thing your guy likes that's the only thing that would baffle me.

    Ditto.  I don't get why some people don't like it.  

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  • I agree with PP's.  They love the view and can go in deeper.  Not all men prefer it though, some don't.
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  • My hubby loves it because he gets to hold my hips.  Something about that really gets him off.
  • Actually I was just curious as to the reason why people might think it was preferred. Just curiosity that was all. Are all people in this nest as rude as you?? If you didnt like the question why did you answer? Did you really join the nest to make fun of others questions?

  • I'd venture a guess (as a female) that maybe a dude might prefer it because he's still controlling the action, but he's not doing pushups on top of you.  Less work, what's not to love? :) 

    I think you got some worthwhile responses to your question.  If you think THIS is rude, you obviously haven't looked at some of the other boards. 

  • I normally don't like doggy. Why? My insecurities and sometimes the deepness actually can be painful at times.

     But! There is a different version of doggy that I have found tolerable. Hands on the floor with my knees on the bed, and doing doggy that way. The angle doesn't hurt at much but has a very similar view for the guy.

  • I would think it's because they can get deeper and are more in control, though I'm sure there's other reasons. As a female, that's why I like it! LOL!! I also prefer reverse cowgirl, which is still from behind I guess but that way I'm (the chick) is in control...which is why I think he likes it. Either way....

    Ugh I haven't posted much, this is an odd way to introduce myself - bahahahaha!!!

  • It's the best way to watch football on television and enjoy sex at the same time.

    It's the Ultimate Win-Win.

  • imageShake N Bake:

    It's the best way to watch football on television and enjoy sex at the same time.

    It's the Ultimate Win-Win.

     

    That sounds incredibly demeaning. Worst of all, I'm assuming you are forcing her to watch American football against her will. Troglodytes like yourself should be locked up and forced to make women's purses.

     

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    ...  it's only demeaning if she's forced to watch the Cowboys

  • imageShake N Bake:

    It's the best way to watch football on television and enjoy sex at the same time.

    It's the Ultimate Win-Win.

    Bahahahaha, yeah right! He'd be doing all the work AND would probably get a neck cramp from looking up.

    Your Reasoning = FAIL! LOL

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    imageShake N Bake:

    It's the best way to watch football on television and enjoy sex at the same time.

    It's the Ultimate Win-Win.

    Bahahahaha, yeah right! He'd be doing all the work AND would probably get a neck cramp from looking up.

    Your Reasoning = FAIL! LOL

    He's a man, what do you expect? ;)

     

    By the way, I see you are married to an African American. Is it true what they say about their genitalia? There aren't many of them on this side of the pond.

  • imageKris10*:
    imageShake N Bake:

    It's the best way to watch football on television and enjoy sex at the same time.

    It's the Ultimate Win-Win.

    Bahahahaha, yeah right! He'd be doing all the work AND would probably get a neck cramp from looking up.

    Your Reasoning = FAIL! LOL

     

    looking up?

    he just needs to move the television

    -- and you might think it's selfish reasoning, but it's not.

    ..... you get to watch the game too!

    except if you're on 'all fours', you will need to drink your beer thru a straw.

    go ahead, float the idea his way.  he will love you for it.

  • My partner and I do it this way, because then both of us can see Dancing with the Stars and Glee.
  • imageLaboheme1:

    He's a man, what do you expect? ;)

    By the way, I see you are married to an African American. Is it true what they say about their genitalia? There aren't many of them on this side of the pond.

    Nothing less I guess, LOL!

    And ummmm bahahahaha, I've never been asked that before. I guess so. I've only ever been with him but from what I've seen sure, I'd say whatever you're hearing is probably on the truer side than not. I'm definitely not complaining.

    imageShake N Bake:

    looking up?

    he just needs to move the television

    -- and you might think it's selfish reasoning, but it's not.

    ..... you get to watch the game too!

    except if you're on 'all fours', you will need to drink your beer thru a straw.

    go ahead, float the idea his way.  he will love you for it.

    I'm not into foozball (I think I'm probably the only one out there who's only in it for the hot wings and cold beer, lol) and hey, it's not selfish if he can do it to watch football and I can do it to watch....I don't know, Big Brother - LOL!!

    Oh and I'm sure he'd LOVE your idea but he's got no reason to complain so we're good without including the tv. I'll keep your suggestion in mind though, ya know....just in case.

  • dammit...thats my favorite but my FI fav is me on top. I wish it was his. But he has joked that once Im "more pregnant" I wont be able to do it on top anyways haha, so I can wait. 

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  • I don't know cuz haven't tried it. A lady friend of mine said it was deepr but since the erotic stimulators r in the front [clit and g spot] then its ur vaginal

    sensors that work. One thing I know for me as a man is does feels so good i guess u r wrapped all around and that warm vagina feels so gooooood. I also love to touch a womans buttucks,so soft.

    My favorite is missionary but with sensual kissing and slow thrust to ride that wave of estasy as long as possible.

    makes me wonder how a well endowed man gets enjoyment cuz he is half in and half out.

    I have another favorite but u have to ask ok.

     

  • imageSnorkasaurus:
    My partner and I do it this way, because then both of us can see Dancing with the Stars and Glee.

    lol, I had a good giggle do people actually watch tv while having sex then. I would think it would be more of a time to be intimate and plus i can get easily distracted so my only thought process is to enjoy the moment.

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