June 2009 Weddings
Dear Community,

Our tech team has launched updates to The Nest today. As a result of these updates, members of the Nest Community will need to change their password in order to continue participating in the community. In addition, The Nest community member's avatars will be replaced with generic default avatars. If you wish to revert to your original avatar, you will need to re-upload it via The Nest.

If you have questions about this, please email help@theknot.com.

Thank you.

Note: This only affects The Nest's community members and will not affect members on The Bump or The Knot.

Hi girls... sad news.

(XP on August 2011)

Last week I lost my symptoms, went in for an u/s and they measured me 4 days behind.  Today we went in for our follow up, and we found out I had a missed miscarriage.  I opted to take the medicinal route and we are waiting for the miscarriage to pass in the next few hours.

This just wasn't our take home baby.  Despite the hell we had to go through to get here, it will happen for us again.  We'll bounce back from it.

More details are in my blog.  For now I'm going to bed and waiting for this nightmare to pass.
imageimage

Dx: MFI, unexplained recurrent miscarriages
IVF w/ICSI #1 (December 2010): m/c at 6w4d
IVF w/ICSI #2 (April 2011): c/p
FET #1 (July 2011): m/c at 7w3d
IVF w/ICSI #3 (October 2011- new clinic): BFP.

Lainey was born on June 13, 2012 via c-section at 37w3d! :)

Lilypie First Birthday tickers

Re: Hi girls... sad news.

  • Casey, my heart is breaking for you and Chuck, but I'm also in awe and total admiration of your resolve and strength through this. If there's anything I can do, please let me know.
    Photobucket
  • I am so sorry. I think you are absolutely taking the right approach to it, although I know that "It wasn't the right time" is probably the hardest thing to say right now.  The good news is that you were able to get pregnant and if you need reassurance that it can happen after a loss, check out Amelia's pics below.  T&P for you and C.
    image
  • Casey... I replied to you on FB this morning, but I want you to know I'm thinking of you and Chuck. You are VERY strong. *hugs*
    Mr. & Mrs. O: Est. 6/27/2009, Jacob Ryan 3/3/2010, Owen Matthew 8/14/2012!
    :::In My Life, I've Loved You More:::
    CHARTS

    Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
    Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
  • imageSBS0628:
    Casey, my heart is breaking for you and Chuck, but I'm also in awe and total admiration of your resolve and strength through this. If there's anything I can do, please let me know.

    This. I am so, so, so sorry for you guys. 

    We have so much time, and so little to do! Strike that, reverse it.
    My Bio (wedding pics added 7/6)
    My 101
    Lilypie First Birthday tickers
  • Casey-  my heart breaks for you over this.  I was just in tears reading your blog.  You are most definitely in my thoughts and prayers.  I hope you get to feeling better soon hun!
    Image and video hosting by TinyPic Image and video hosting by TinyPicBaby Birthday Ticker TickerBaby Birthday Ticker Ticker
  • I am so sorry to hear this sad news.  You and your H are in my thoughts and prayers during this time.

    Despite this happening, I really admire you and your H's strength through this.

    Just know, that you have the option to get pregnant, and it will happen again.  It's nature's way of making sure you bring a healthy baby into this world.

    If you ever need to talk/vent please know that J9er's are here for you! 

  • You and Chuck haven't left my thoughts all day. 

    A new year is just hours away. 2011 will be so much better. I know it.  

    image image
    Lucy Elizabeth 10.27.12
  • I saw your post on the pregnancy loss board first, so I replied there. 

    Huge hugs to you and Chuck.  Losing a pregnancy sucks & I'm so sorry you guys have to experience it.

     

    BFP#1 11.9.10 (EDD 7.15.11) M/C 11.13.10 @5W1D
    BFP#2 2.5.11 (EDD 10.15.11) DS born 9.28.11 due to Pre-E
    BFP#3 10.2.12 (EDD 6.12.13) MMC 11.24.12 @11.5w, had passed in 7th week
    Lilypie Second Birthday tickers
    My Chart Recipe Blog
    ~All AL'ers welcome~
  • Just saw your blog post Casey -- I'm so sorry for your loss.  I admire how strong you and Chuck are through this process.  I can't imagine how difficult it is.  2011 will be your year - I hope you can keep your positive attitude.
  • Casey, you have been in my thoughts since I saw your post on FB this morning. I am so, so sorry, but you are an amazing, strong woman. You have such a positive attitude and I know 2011 is going to be a great year for you and Chuck.

    Image and video hosting by TinyPic Image and video hosting by TinyPicimage
    BFP #1: 6.26.12 EDD: 2.11.13 missed m/c: 7.31.12 @ 12 weeks
    BFP #2: 10.1.12 EDD: 6.11.12
    <a href="http://s205.photobucket.com/albums/bb264/chaleybeth06/?action=view
  • I just got home and read your blog post. I am so so sorry Casey. Big zombie hugs for you. Left HugRight Hug
    image
  • Casey, my heart is breaking for you. I really admire your bravery and positive attitude through all this. You and your H have been through so much, but the tough times are only making your bond stronger. I know that 2011 will bring great things :)
    Warning No formatter is installed for the format bbhtml
  • Casey, just finished reading your blog post. I am so sorry you & C are going though this. You are such a brave & strong woman. 2011 WILL be your year! Lots of prayers & hugs being sent to you.
    Warning No formatter is installed for the format bbhtml
  • Casey, I am so, so sorry that you and Chuck are going through this. It will take time to heal from this, but your strength and resolve are apparent and I know 2011 will bring great things for you and your family. You guys really are "superhuman awesome" and I'm praying hard for you. You know the J9ers are here if you need to talk.
    Warning No formatter is installed for the format bbhtml
  • I am so terribly sorry, Casey.  I will keep you guys in my prayers. 
  • I'm sorry Casey.  It's been so fun reading your blog and seeing your excitement about the pregnancy and I'm so disappointed for you. 

    Best of luck for a better 2011.

  • Oh Casey, I'm so sorry for your sad news :(  You and Chuck are going to make wonderful parents someday soon, that much is completely evident!  Thinking of you and sending positive thoughts your way
    image

    Pregnancy Ticker
  • Oh Casey I am so sorry to hear the news.  Sending positive thoughts your way. 
    Lilypie Pregnancy tickers
  • I'm so sorry for you and Chuck, but admire your strength. You WILL be a mommy some day, and a darn good one at that!
Sign In or Register to comment.
Choose Another Board
Search Boards