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Lunch with Friend F/U

Well, it went okay.  I gave her a big hug and we got our food.  We went to sit down, and there was a mommy with a little sleeping baby.  She was like "Aww, how cute!" And then started talking about how many of our friends from back in HS have been having kids.  But she told me "Don't make me cry!"  All I wanted to do was like hug her and let her cry :(  She found out on Christmas Eve she was pregnant again, but already miscarried it.  She said it didn't matter, because it wasn't really a person yet to her. Not someone she got to meet and fall in love with.  I just feel so bad for her.  I let her talk about it and so I hope that I could be of some help.  My heart just hurts so much for her.  I probably won't see her for another 5 years or so since she lives in CO and doesn't want to move back.  I wish I could make her feel better :(
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Re: Lunch with Friend F/U

  • Wow, sounds like an emotional lunch!  You did the right thing of just letting her talk.  Seems as though she has had a lot of tough breaks lately!  I hope she will be alright!
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  • You did the only thing that anyone can do for her right now. Being an ear and a shoulder is what she really needs. It will be tough for her for awhile, but time will help heal her heart.
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    You did the only thing that anyone can do for her right now. Being an ear and a shoulder is what she really needs. It will be tough for her for awhile, but time will help heal her heart.

     Thanks girls.  And, I know you're right... but I can't help but wish, especially after seeing her, that there was something I could do :(  At least have more time to talk... I just really wish I could do more.  I know I can't take it away, but it stinks to see a friend so sad. I will keep praying for her. I feel it's the best I can do right now.

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  • I am so glad it went well and the lunch probaby meant a lot to her.  I am glad she is talking about it and getting it out. 
  • I'm glad that the lunch went well all things considered. I'm sure she appreciates your time together immensely. Since she lives so far away from you and you don't know when you'll see her again - make sure she knows that even though you aren't there physically for her, that you are only a phone call away any time she needs someone to talk to or just to cry to. I'm sure she'd appreciate that as well.

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