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Scary Nightmare DH's been having..
So this morning I was talking to Ryan about some concerns of mine. Saying it seems he's distanced himself from me a little bit. I reminded him that it is really important that we talk to each other about things that have been bothering us. He ended up confiding in me that he's been having this nightmare for about a week now that I die while giving birth to a little boy. And that the reason why I died was because I was in an unhealthy pregnancy. He burried his face in my neck and started crying.
That just freaked me out. I know you can't take things like those seriously. But I know I'm struggling a lot with getting healthier. Hell I've gained so much weight since I started dating him, and I know I'm not at a weight I want to be. I think I'm going to make an appointment with my doctor to discuss some things as for some options (I'm not talking about surgery).
Just thought I'd tell you girls because this is on my mind.
Re: Scary Nightmare DH's been having..
Wow! That is an awful dream! One that is hopefully not a premonition and just represents some random brain fragments circling about!
It can never hurt to try to be healthier. I've been struggling with the same thing. The food blog that someone posted (I can't remember now) in a recent post had some amazing healthy recipes!
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Thing is Destiny, I told him I wanted to get healthy not only for myself but for future pregnancies. I don't do well under stress, I'm quite nervous about it since I'll be going back to school soon. I eat my stress away, always feel hungry, and just feel down about it all. I definitely need to get my butt to the doctor.
I'll look for that blog you're talking about.
OMG Diana!! That's freaking scary!! I hate dreams like that, that seem so real!
My cousin did a dream analysis class for phycology when she was in college. She really likes to interpret dreams and stuff like that. One thing she told me that she learned from class was that although things happen in dreams that can actually happen in real life, most dreams that are that detailed aren't literal. It could mean he's worried about losing someone, or things would change once you two decide to have childeren.
Thanks, Theresa!
I agree with Theresa. I read somewhere that sometimes you dream about things that have been bothering is a way for you to get rid of some of the anxiety. He has probably been thinking things and built up some anxiety. Poor Ryan.... I hope now that he talked to you about it he can get some better sleep now. Maybe going to the doctor can put his and your mind at ease.
Nursing school is super super stressful, so if I can do anything to help you, let me know! Hang in there! (I also eat like a pig when I'm stressed)
Oh, here is the blog October10Bride (I know I probably just slaughtered your handle) posted. It looks amazing. I've already printed off the recipes for the blackbean/butternut squash egg rolls.
http://carascravings.blogspot.com/
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