Oklahoma Nesties
Dear Community,
Our tech team has launched updates to The Nest today. As a result of these updates, members of the Nest Community will need to change their password in order to continue participating in the community. In addition, The Nest community member's avatars will be replaced with generic default avatars. If you wish to revert to your original avatar, you will need to re-upload it via The Nest.
If you have questions about this, please email help@theknot.com.
Thank you.
Note: This only affects The Nest's community members and will not affect members on The Bump or The Knot.
Do you ever wish you were more anonymous?
A lot of us know each other IRL, or we've met through the nest. Do you ever wish that you were more secretive about your identity on here? Are you ever worried that someone IRL is going to recognize you from your posts?
Re: Do you ever wish you were more anonymous?
The only time I wish I were more anonymous is when I have financial questions for Money Matters. I'd like to be able to share actual dollar amounts to get better advice but don't feel like I can since I'm friends/friendly with many of you. It's not like we're doing super well or super poorly, but more because I don't feel comfortable sharing financial details with most people.
E.G., A friend's husband asked me point blank at our Christmas party how much money I made. I think that's rude. I said, "Somewhere between 'plenty' and 'never enough'"