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What percent of your income do you spend on rent/mortgage?

We are moving this summer as DH starts a fellowship. We already have a hold on a townhouse (no lease signed yet) but new years eve we went to visit family in the area and just spend 2 hrs driving around looking at condos..eeek! We were too excited about the new job/move (we really do not like the city where we live now, and we cannot want to move!). So ofcourse everything was closed we just basically looked at the outside and the neighborhoods of places we saw online.

We fell in love with a couple and would likely see them next weekend, some looked a lot of more that they are asking for (like luxury condos, etc). But they are about $200-$300 more than the one we currently have a hold on. This would put us 29% of out take home pays in rent. We want to buy but we will only be staying there for 3 years (maybe more but DH wont find out until the end of fellowship, and it really not a good area for job development for my field), so it is not really a good idea. Hence we will rent.

Is 29% reasonable? How  much do you spend? It just seems too much for me I lived in a low cost of living area for the last 5 years and I think I am getting sticker shock! 

Ann and Brett 10.9.10

Re: What percent of your income do you spend on rent/mortgage?

  • I think that general rule of thumb is that you shouldn't spend more than a 1/3 of your income on household expenses (rent w/ utilities) I think we spend right about that. 

    I can totally relate to your sticker shock. When I moved to Boston from Oregon I almost died when I saw how much the cost of living was out here. Its crazy to think that $1200 is reasonable for a tiny 2 bedroom when back in Oregon that got you an acre and a house for the same amount.

     

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    I think that general rule of thumb is that you shouldn't spend more than a 1/3 of your income on household expenses (rent w/ utilities)

     I've heard this too. We maybe spend a litle less then a third of our incomes with rent/utilities. We live super close to NYC (like <10 minutes), so things by us are SUPER expensive. It sucks because if we moved 30 minutes more out west, we could have like triple the space for the same price.  But we need to stay where we are because of DHs job (police officer so its in his contract). Weigh all pros and cons before deciding. See where you'd be happiest.


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  • We spend about 50% on rent and utilities, which I know is high, but we live in nyc.  We live in the same neighborhood that my husband grew up in, which he loves and really doesn't want to leave, so it was worth it to him to pay more.  We both grew up in NYC, and can't imagine living happily in a cheaper subarb.  We're totally spoiled living here.  If we move elsewhere, it'll still be in NYC or another major city.
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  • For many parts of the country, I think 29% would be considered good! We actually pay less than 20% of our total monthly income on our house and utilities, but we live in a city with a low cost of living. It was VERY different when I lived in Boston! I was paying about 45% of my take-home pay for my rent then!

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  • Right now with DH being on unemployment we are spending about 45% on rent.  Hopefully he gets back to work in the next couple of months because it sucks being broke.  In our area it is about average to pay about $850 for a 2-3 bedroom.  Which I guess is good for some people.  
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  • We spend 25% on our mortgage...you have to remember water, bill, electric, property taxes...plus cable, phone, food, etc...

    I plan on working a little bit more than part time when we start a family, so I guess that number is going to be a bit higher soon :(

    But I think you're ok with 29%.  It will still give you wiggle room and to be able to go away, save, etc...

    good luck!

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  • 29% is reasonable. We spend 24% of our after-tax/take home pay. I've heard you can go up to 33%, but only if you don't have any/much other debt and if your savings level is comfortable.
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  • Oh, and our 50% was just based on Jon's income, since for the past 2 years I've just been working part time.  My money all went towards the wedding fund and fun money. 

    Starting next week though, I'll finally be working full time!  So our % probably goes back down to 30%.  We're still gonna use Jon's income for bills, and funnel my income into savings/debt, since we want to save up for a house and kids.

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  • we have 2 houses right now. i pay about 45% for mine (1 bedroom cottage), and DH pays abour 33% of his income for his (2bd apt). 

    this is clearly not ideal. but for me, living without roommates (im 31!!) and in a safe neighborhood (since im alone) was far more important than having cable, eating out, etc.

    so we just shifted. we barely ever eat out (maybe once every 3 months) and we dont spend on things like cable, home phone, fancy internet, etc. we have also paid off all of our debt 

    ill say this -- its uncomfortable, but its doable.  

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  • We spend 10.5% of our regular income, though when you add bonuses (we both earn them) that drops it to 8%.  We have a 3 bedroom, 2 bathroom home in a safe neighborhood, but it is old and is nothing fancy.  We rent and will probably stay here until we are completely out of debt, which is when we will buy a home.  Even at that point we will never, ever, ever have a payment of more than 25% of our take home.  I think with 30%+ you just have way too much of your overall portfolio tied up in your house.
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  • We are right under 29% but that was figured on gross income, because I hate math :) We do pretty well with that amount, and definitely better now that the mortgage payment is coming out of both our incomes and not just DH's. Oh, no credit card debit helps also. But I did just buy a brand new car so we are back on the budget train!
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  • We spend 47%, DH can't work yet because of immigration, but this will change in a month!!! :o)  I can't wait until that percentage is lower and we can actually save/do things with our money
  • We spend 36% of our income on rent alone.

     But like PP's said, it's all relative to where you live.  We live in Chicago, in the city, and love it.  We can't imagine living in a suburb at this point.

    We've looked at condo's in the city, and for what a 2-bed,2ba 1300 SF condo gets us in the city...we could get a 5bed, 4ba, 4000 SF new house in our hometown.

    Life's just all about decisions.

  • right now we only spend about 8%. but, we live in a small 1 bdr apt.
  • We spend about 27% of our income for rent and we have a 3 br/2 bath home.
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