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The Big O
Question:
Do any of you cry when you orgasm?
I have mini orgasms and I don't cry, but if I have a larger one I burst into tears. Happy uncontrollable tears. It is quite embarassing (I don't cry often).
And usually it freaks my poor DH when it happens because I can't stop crying and he hates to see me cry even if they are happy tears.
He is the only person who can make me orgasm this hard (not even I can lol)
So I'm wondering if I am the only one this happens to.
TIA
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Re: The Big O
Nope, you're not the only one. From what I understand, it's just the buildup of feel-good chemicals and emotions. They've gotta get out somehow, and when you orgasm, the way you release them is by crying.
I have cried a few times, but I was already feeling emotional about something in those cases. They were still tears of joy though...and nothing wrong with that! Your body just gets overwhelmed with emotion and it's got to come out somehow.
Has anyone else had their toes go numb?
That's always fun. I like when that happens.
No numb toes - just cramped ones, sometimes for HOURS after.
But my face goes numb sometimes. The hubs knows he did good if I'm laying there, grinning like a fool, giggling and touching all over my face. Hahah! I would never, ever want to see what I actually look like at that time, oy.
Haha! That's hilarious!
Yeah.. I laugh too.. but only bc I am crying and can't stop so I need to lighten the mood. so then i laugh and can't stop doing that either. haha.
I am glad I'm not the only one.. also glad this isn't as rare as I thought.
Thanks ladies
Me too! It completely freeked DH out the first couple times. He swore I was laughing at him, but I had to explain that I was just so happy. When I asked if he'd rather I cry (which was my other option at that point), he stopped being upset by my laughing. lol
Yes to the crying, and double yes to the numb toes. Sometimes my right leg shakes like crazy and I can't stand or walk for a while because it's twitching like mad.
The first time I cried hard dh thought he hurt me and (I'm showing my age here) clapped to get the light on to see if I was okay. I was so embarrassed I rolled a bit and ended up kneeing him in the **** and he fell off the bed. I got great pleasure, he got great pain. For years we have the private joke that he 'loves to see me cry.'
Okay your story reminded me of DH and I's colored condom story. DH and were both virgins when we got married, and as a surprise in our honeymoon sweet his brother and SIL had a basket of "fun things" waiting for us in the room, including colored condoms. So, a couple weeks after we got married, we were in the middle of doing the deeed, and DH reached over and just grabbed a condom out of the box. We finished, and he went to dispose of the condom. Well, I hear him freaking out, and he comes over and looks on the bed and asks if I'm okay (which I was). He goes back over to the garbage, removes the condom and says out loud, "Oh thank goodness! The condoms red." He thought one of us was bleeding or something. lol So now that's our inside joke, "Oh thank goodness the condoms red." Btw, we haven't bought any more colored condoms. lol
Sometimes my hearing gets muffled a bit after a really intense session.
I know! Thats what I was thinking!!